I dont think its necessarily a guy thing. I'm like that. I will shut off completely, and start looking after me. It's not to say that I never cared, or never loved my partner, it just means I need my energy and time to focus on me and better myself
Not cold but evaluating the situation wondering what gone wrong try to be ok with it and walk like nothing happened just to make you wonder if you are still close to my heart or I don't give a dn! About nothing and confuse you more 🙂 it's just a defense mechanism a lot of still use
Frankly, a large majority of both sexes go cold. After all, done is done. The mere ending is a cold act even if on mutual terms. I don’t reach out to any ex.
There's a rich man who put all his money into a deal. But that deal doesn't go well and he goes bankrupt. So, he becomes a poor man. Now, do you understand where I'm going with this?
Because we process emotions differently. We also realize that it’s best to distance yourself from an ex as they are no are no longer apart of their lives in that way.
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I dont think its necessarily a guy thing. I'm like that. I will shut off completely, and start looking after me. It's not to say that I never cared, or never loved my partner, it just means I need my energy and time to focus on me and better myself
They need to move on, and talking to their once love, does not help
Not cold but evaluating the situation wondering what gone wrong try to be ok with it and walk like nothing happened just to make you wonder if you are still close to my heart or I don't give a dn!
About nothing and confuse you more 🙂 it's just a defense mechanism a lot of still use
We are mentally deleting the person from our mind and soul. When I break up with someone I tell them, "you will never see or hear from me again".
Is this to avoid feeling sad so you can move forward, or is this simply an unemotional thing?
Frankly, a large majority of both sexes go cold. After all, done is done. The mere ending is a cold act even if on mutual terms. I don’t reach out to any ex.
Because staying friendly is too ambiguous and makes the relationship last longer than would be healthy.
Agreed
Well... I mean, what do you expect us to do? Lol weird question.
You're weird or at the least rude
Huh? How's that? I'm saying what else do you expect us to do?
Not call my question weird. That not nice that's rude
Uh... sure.
Cause his heart is alive , and it need to set zero after braking up and it will be hot again somewhere else
What else is he supposed to do😂😂like if you guys broke up then that's it you're out of his life in his mind hopefully for good so he can move on
If you don't gain distance to your ex she will very likely brag with your addiction to her or she will misinterpret some things.
There's a rich man who put all his money into a deal. But that deal doesn't go well and he goes bankrupt. So, he becomes a poor man. Now, do you understand where I'm going with this?
Think about it! Why would they?
Because they have just burnt a bridge.
They have entered a new life trajectory, it is an adjustment if they built their lives around someone.
This is very hard.
Same reason women cry and get emotional
a man getting angry is the same as a woman crying and getting emotional
we’re just wired that way, we aren’t the same, the only way we’re alike is the fact we’re human.
Because you no longer exist to us.
This guy is right
What I thought
This is true. Especially if it's the female that leaves the male. It's actually an emotional defence used to get over the relationship
Because we process emotions differently. We also realize that it’s best to distance yourself from an ex as they are no are no longer apart of their lives in that way.
Girls every time have more options so if it doesn't work once we go cold not every one can be in a relationship like Ross of friends
cause that's how you protect your own emotions to cope.
0) Who's dumping who?
1) What do you mean by "go cold"?
2) What are you expecting they should do?
because they are in pain
Sometimes I get angry and lash out to avoid feeling hurt. Eventually we all have to deal with it.
Thank you
Because she no longer plays a role in our lives after a break up. You don't want to be with us, so you don't get any part of us.