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Why do guys go cold after a break-up? (Page 2)

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  • Unit1
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    It's called moving on and it's the right thing to do.

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  • DorkyJon
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    In my experience my worst breakup was like having a piece of me ripped off, I suspect my endocrine system was going through a massive withdrawal of love drugs, which would explain why it felt so much like a crushing cold defeat on an epic scale.

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  • theCobbler
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    Because their egos got pinched and butt hurt, waa, waa , in retaliation they get mad , pissy, and Ice up...🙄🙄🙄

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  • mrbendatass
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    Cause a broken heart either make or break us. some of us boss up after to flex on dat ass, but never in that ass again.

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  • Willie_G
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    personally when I go cold it's to sort out my thoughts and process my emotions.

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    • LexyIsSexy23
      LexyIsSexy23
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      Thank you

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    • Willie_G
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      yw @LexyIsSexy23

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    • LexyIsSexy23
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      🙂🙂🙂

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  • admles
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    Why wouldn't they?

    It's a break up, you're not together anymore. Time to cut all ties, cut off all feelings and move on.

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  • ak_wolf
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    Breaking up a serious relationship take away a part of you, emotionally. A guy becomes cold if he feels he has been wronged and disrespected even after being completely invested in that relationship.

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  • dudeinohio
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    Well, we are broke up. I moved on and never spoke to or saw an ex ever again.

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  • termanator
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    Bottom line is if we’re over, we’re it’s the end of us no need to try and act like nothing ever happened that’s just nonsense

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  • dermworm
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    We just are wired to delete the girl from our memory to cope since it isn’t socially acceptable for us to express grief... also no one wants to hear one of their boys lament about their ex

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  • mv0201
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    Do they. I don't think that. What I belive that a breakup is end of a part of a relationship not the full relationship. What is your opinion on this @lexyIsSexy23

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    • mv0201
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      The thing is stopping to talk is nothing because the relationship has made the person a part of you. You cannot forget the memories you made together. Learn from them and upgrade that's the best. Lol, this is not the best answer but maybee makes sense.

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  • Pranav27
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    Personally , i think if the guy had too much love in the girl, he would be ice cold after a breakup coz he was betrayed by his emotions that the girl will definitely be with him

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  • Juxtapose
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    Men withdraw when copping. It's how we are.

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    • LexyIsSexy23
      LexyIsSexy23
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      Thank you

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    • Juxtapose
      Juxtapose
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      You're welcome.

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  • Goahead76
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    Usually because you've had your heart ripped out.. lol That's one possibility.

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  • bklynbadboy1
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    I dont think that's just a guy thing girls do that too

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  • Benjr134
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    What do you expect them to do, it’s an emotional situation, they act emotionally.

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    • LexyIsSexy23
      LexyIsSexy23
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      Men don't have emotions unless for themselves

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    • Kene0470
      Kene0470
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      This is very untrue

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    • aaalhajri666
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      I disagree with you Lexy every man is concerned about the wellbeing of his family and friends but he doesn't show it to anyone!
      We men can't cry on everything happens! We collect all of that stuff in our hearts and when some strong things happens like death of 1st degree relative that is to most men but myself I might cry by myself and hide , where no one can see me like that accept for 2!! My Mother and God himself only!!!

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    • aaalhajri666
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      A lot of men think how to put up a nice beautiful life for people around them especially their children and parents.
      You just find the right one and hope you do

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    • marc94
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      What a fucked up shitty head you have, Lexy. Grow up.

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  • OddBeMe
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    I go cold on anyone who becomes toxic to me. It’s just wasted time after that.

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  • Tonita91996
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    They act how they feel about you. They dont anything to do with you. The truth hurts.

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    • Tonita91996
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      Want

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  • shouldeye
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    more women are going to hell then men
    that should give you your answer

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    • Anoniemus
      Anoniemus
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      Men commit suicide more. So I doubt it.

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    • shouldeye
      shouldeye
      +1 y

      @Anoniemus

      Ecclesiastes 7:28
      while I was still searching but not finding-- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all

      you women actually think your vaginas will save you lol
      I find it hilarious cause it can't even save you from men on earth much less god

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    • Anoniemus
      Anoniemus
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      Seeing as it was written by men (and bitter old ones), I'm not surprised that you would believe it. :)

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    • shouldeye
      shouldeye
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      @Anoniemus

      GOD is above the dome
      they were right

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    • Anoniemus
      Anoniemus
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      Ok boomer. :)

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    • shouldeye
      shouldeye
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      @Anoniemus

      its on video you can't do anything about it
      good luck when you die

      your V won't save you

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    • Anoniemus
      Anoniemus
      +1 y

      Lol! Ok boomer. :)

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    • Yads_Is_Back
      Yads_Is_Back
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      @Anoniemus He ignores the entire Bible and only uses this one scripture to annoy the women on here. This guy has mental issues. Regardless of if you're a Christian or not, I wouldn't fool with him. He needs help.

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    • Anoniemus
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      @Yads_Is_Back Oh, I could tell... lol. It's likely out of desperation from being unable to get one. So sad.

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  • slmsshk
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    +1 y

    You have not met real men.
    There is always another woman waiting.

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  • -XIV-
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    I've seen the situation in other couples before and it apears to be either a sense of Pride or a sense of akwardness and tenseness in the air, or both

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  • Hakanasd
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    Xper 3 Age: 25
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    Because we're scared of being hurt again and when going cold we feel like we are never going to pass that again

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  • comedicco
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    Xper 3 Age: 23
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    Bc we ain't wanna be as vulnerable or self exposed to being in pain , so we just keep with it and and like everything cool

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  • Asker799
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
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    I don't do that until the girl does. So, why do girls?

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  • Plitty-Tank
    Plitty-Tank Follow
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    +1 y

    They are angry and take it out of the woman when the relationship ends.

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  • JamesRandiDebates
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    If you're not emptying his sack, he has no need for you in his life.

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  • Blublub
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    I feel like anyone would

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  • Pousay
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    Nope, we go on a pousay hunt. Woman are basically only good for holes anyway.

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  • Slim57
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    445 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

    The guys you date and girls I date maybe. But not me

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  • energyarun
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    Xper 3 Age: 36
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    Men appearence will be hard but their hearts are so soft

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  • Handsomerob619
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    Xper 3 Age: 58
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    They are affraid to have their heart shattered. Hell with love fuck love

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  • hatia
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    Xper 3 Age: 28
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    Because thay are hurt

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  • Guthm
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    It's defence mechanism

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  • Mia-Wallace
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    Well, what do you exactly expect, ma'am?

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  • anmari2001
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    Guru Age: 25 , mho 40%
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    to jaon the night watch against the white walkers

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  • hatim_tai
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    Xper 5 Age: 40
    +1 y

    we need time to reboot. simple as that.

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  • NorthShoreCalling
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    Hurt pride I think. The same way some girls react.

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  • chriscdi
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    because they accept its over

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  • iFarted
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    Its easier to move on that way.

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  • Creepazoid
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    Because your cold heart is contagious

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    • LexyIsSexy23
      LexyIsSexy23
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      @Creepazoid you already melted my ice heart🙂😎

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    • Creepazoid
      Creepazoid
      +1 y

      😊😊😊

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  • rainbow_dash20
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    Xper 2 Age: 24
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    Because they hurt and need to move on..

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  • hegel
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    Um, because they have bern rejected.. lol

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  • OpenNudist
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    Xper 6 Age: 60
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    Why bother with you afterwards

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  • Nigjt
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    That don't happen to all guy's.
    God Bless

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  • Martinez89
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    Xper 3 Age: 36
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    Because some Hart beaker steps on there Hart!!!🙄

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  • Matt3
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
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    we need time to get back

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  • GayLoner
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    Xper 5 Age: 31
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    Because they are done with you ass

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  • Okasha
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    Xper 3 Age: 36
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    The warmth of the relationship is no longer there.

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  • rajsin
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    Xper 3 Age: 30
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    Becoz they have nothing to whom he will angry..

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  • AaronKrieger
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    You don't?

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  • Stonernights
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    Xper 5 Age: 36
    +1 y

    What does that mean

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  • Meropatrick
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    So much AC

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  • themomo84
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    Who wants drrama?

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  • Calgarydirty69
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    Xper 6 Age: 44
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    some guys

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  • Boyisjoy
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    Xper 5 Age: 38
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    Coz girls go hot!

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