You know, she told me the same thing. But surprisingly she was all i needed and wanted. I guess she just let me of easy... And that destroyed me mentally
First one he cheated and was also a narcissist and did a bunch of bad things.
Second ex well we were best friends even after breaking up but when he met someone he wanted to move on in life I guess, all he said was that we're too different which isn't false we had nothing in common. We also had a rocky last few months and both fought really hard to maintain the friendship.. But we're on good terms.
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He disrespected me , he broke up with me over text , he was boring and rude no matter what I did it was never enough yet his family adored me and he told me to cut contact with them instead I cut it off with him as they were nice people and respected me a lot. So yeah I cut him off because who is he to tell me what to do esp when were not together.
To move forward After breaking up with her, i took a step back (unfriending her) then that's where i took a step forward, which is to heal my wounded heart, feelings, trust or whatever you call it
Mainly because I didn't want to catch feelings again
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It’s difficult cause I feel like even though you can’t see them visually on social media the imprint of your time together still plays out. I don’t think you ever really wipe yourself off but you do the best you can right?
She kept sending me nudes and videos and blowing up my Snapchat and phone wanting to hook up but she cheated and I was pissed. I eventually blocked her to be left alone to process everything because she gave me no time to do that.. and her social media was all posts of her trying to make me feel sorry for her because she felt bad.. like a guilt trip.. so BLOCKED
Well I have never done that to an ex i still had feelings for because i knew that one he is my ex but that does not mean that u can not be friends but also it depends if u and ur ex ended on good or bad terms
I have actually recently been blocked by an ex who I have not spoken to in 3 years. It was a bit out of the blue so I thought it’s because he still has feelings for me. Why else would you care?
I still have feelings for my ex and I still am friends with her. The only reason being she broke it off not me... so I harbor no ill feelings towards her.
@Unicorns_exist in one case cause I knew he wasn’t good for me, in another case cause they were the one who left and I wanted to give them their privacy.
If we couldn’t work as a relationship and that’s supposed to garner a higher level of respect and there wasn’t why stay friends. Literally couldn’t have you any your best
If they say horrible things the day of the breakup meant to shatter your self-esteem, and then later tries to be friends, acting like they never said those hurtful things without apologizing.
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Her excessive cheating and her mother calling my sister a whore when I took her to a baseball game instead of my ex after we broke up.
And I quote, "SO THIS IS THE WHORE YOU LEFT MY DAUGHTER FOR?"
Just a quick reminder, Liz dumped me and married the guy she was cheating on me with. Pretty sure Liz lied to her mother as well.
Moving on with my life no need to keep trash in the back yard
He wanted more than I was willing to give him, so I let him go. He deserves the happiness he desires.
You know, she told me the same thing. But surprisingly she was all i needed and wanted. I guess she just let me of easy... And that destroyed me mentally
I’m sorry to hear that, I hope you can move on to better things.
Me too.. Even after 6 months I'm still hoping I to find happiness
You’ll find it when it’s time :) it’ll be ok
First one he cheated and was also a narcissist and did a bunch of bad things.
Second ex well we were best friends even after breaking up but when he met someone he wanted to move on in life I guess, all he said was that we're too different which isn't false we had nothing in common. We also had a rocky last few months and both fought really hard to maintain the friendship.. But we're on good terms.
He disrespected me , he broke up with me over text , he was boring and rude no matter what I did it was never enough yet his family adored me and he told me to cut contact with them instead I cut it off with him as they were nice people and respected me a lot. So yeah I cut him off because who is he to tell me what to do esp when were not together.
To move forward
After breaking up with her, i took a step back (unfriending her) then that's where i took a step forward, which is to heal my wounded heart, feelings, trust or whatever you call it
Mainly because I didn't want to catch feelings again
It’s difficult cause I feel like even though you can’t see them visually on social media the imprint of your time together still plays out. I don’t think you ever really wipe yourself off but you do the best you can right?
True, I just try to distract myself with other things whenever I think about them or my past with them
He kept trying to cheat on his current girlfriend with me. No way would I ever do that
She kept sending me nudes and videos and blowing up my Snapchat and phone wanting to hook up but she cheated and I was pissed. I eventually blocked her to be left alone to process everything because she gave me no time to do that.. and her social media was all posts of her trying to make me feel sorry for her because she felt bad.. like a guilt trip.. so BLOCKED
Well I have never done that to an ex i still had feelings for because i knew that one he is my ex but that does not mean that u can not be friends but also it depends if u and ur ex ended on good or bad terms
I have actually recently been blocked by an ex who I have not spoken to in 3 years. It was a bit out of the blue so I thought it’s because he still has feelings for me. Why else would you care?
My ex unfriended herself by the way she acted. Our relationship was over, there was no way back. Better to move on and put space between us
That's usually one of the reasons, if I still have feelings for an ex, I'm going to cut off all contact so that I can get over her.
because it hurts to be with that person knowing they're with someone else when you still love that person
I still have feelings for my ex and I still am friends with her. The only reason being she broke it off not me... so I harbor no ill feelings towards her.
Still had feels for them. Too tempting to contact them.
This doesn’t make sense. Why block them if you still harbour feelings for them?
@Unicorns_exist in one case cause I knew he wasn’t good for me, in another case cause they were the one who left and I wanted to give them their privacy.
I wouldn’t be friends with my ex girlfriend
Drama and stuff I Don’t want
Because there's no point in staying friends with them.
If we couldn’t work as a relationship and that’s supposed to garner a higher level of respect and there wasn’t why stay friends. Literally couldn’t have you any your best
If they say horrible things the day of the breakup meant to shatter your self-esteem, and then later tries to be friends, acting like they never said those hurtful things without apologizing.