Is she letting me down gently?

[Anonymous]

Her...i miss you so much and we still have 2 days to go :( xxx

me...i know, I miss you too, it will soon pass though, just enjoy yourself xxx

her...im scared you are going to find someone else, you're too good for me :(

me...what are you been like that for? don't you want to be with me or something? X

her...of course I do, I just think you are too good for me and can do better and your parents probably think the same x

me...just ring me please

her...i don't know what to say to you

me...just ring me woman, I don't bite

her...i will tomorrow, we are going to bed now x

me...is this just your way of letting me down gently? Tell me what you really want

what the heck is this about? Just insecurity? Or her way of letting me down gently? what's the best way of going about this? To determine if she really likes me? Thanks people

[Distant]

She clearly likes you and is very insecure. From my experience, it's better to date a more confident girl because it leads to much less jealousy problems. Just make her feel like she's beautiful to you and it should ease things up a little. She wasn't letting you down easily. I don't see how you could've taken in that way.

~Distant

[Asker]

She messaged me back when I asked her what she wants. She basically said about wanting to spend her life with me, cuddling me and kissing me and stuff, I just googled it about what it means when a woman says we are too good for them, and it says that its her way of gently letting us down

[Distant]

You can't always believe Google, mate. That's what a girl says when she's breaking up with you and her words are "You're too good for me.". If you are at the beginning of or are planning to start a relationship and a girl is saying that, it just means she's insecure.

~Distant

[Asker]

Ok, I won't always believe google haha... We slept together on Sunday , on the 17th, and I asked her if we were officially together and she said yes. So does this 100 percent mean she is just insecure? Would this cause her to break it off to stop herself getting hurt? Kind of like paranoia? Thinking things

[Distant]

I've been with girls and they have said this type of thing to me and we went on to have decent relationships. She just feels that you're out of her league so to speak and is worried that you'll leave her because of it. Just assure her that you like her for her and her pessimistic thoughts aren't welcome :P

~Distant

[cbirnell]

I have been in a relationship where the tables were turned and the guy was acting similar with me. He had said the same thing. It crossed my mind he could be taking the easy way out, probably what you may have thought. But Distant is right. And his advice is solid.

[Anonymous]

just random question, if I told you that I'm leaving the guy I've been dating because I've been saying stuff that's hurting him, what would you think? do you think I'm dumb?