What things did the majority of your ex-lovers/crushes share that you loved/hated about them?

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This isn't for ALL, but for the majority— FOR ME, THE GOOD -They were talkative and good listeners -They were very caring -They were good boys with dirty minds -They were Christians -They were loners -They were dominant sexually but outside of that, they allowed me to be the boss FOR ME, THE BAD -They could hardly ever keep their promises -They were quite indecisive -Almost all had clingy mommy or abandonment issues so I think thats why they allowed me to be the boss/planner... it made it hard to end things because they’d guiltrip me with the abandonment stories.. or it was easy to end things because the mom didn't support another woman taking her son away 🤷‍♀️ #FeelFreeToList #ExHabits

Majesty101 · Accepted Answer

This is a pretty tough question for me lol. I really avoided relationships before because of certain reasons. Long story short, a lot of guys out there see me as purely a sex object. So, I will tell you more about crushes than any actual relationship 😂. Majority of the guys I crushed had nothing in common as they were all completely different from he next the face, personality, background, and character. All of them had either an unconventional beauty or an 'exotic' look to them. I loved that each of them had depth and were really mysterious. I loved their independence and the way they expressed what they were passionate about. The only thing that I 'hated' about majority of them was they never fully expressed their feelings/say what they really wanted to say. I can see right through people and I can tell/know what you want to say versus what you tell me, and it's just annoying when the authenticity is thrown out of the window just so you can tell me what you think I want to hear. Other than that, I really love people for who they are and what they do, so I never genuinely 'hated' anything. I loved them all😊

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

- They had leadership or supervisor roles in clubs or jobs
- They were confident but also lacking in confidence
- They had high potential but were bound by obstacles
- 3 of them were autistic but high functioning
- They were shy and inexperienced with woman
- They cared more about personality than looks
- They were affectionate and highly emotional
- They were willing to wait until marriage for sex
- They cherished the social flavour of their partners
- They were very involved in religious communities
- They were possessive of me
- They were virgins
- They came from broken homes
- They were not interested in me at first
- They fell in love slowly

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Most of my past partners were petite and cute but not beautiful. Most of them were intelligent and they were gentle souls. Unfortunately, too many of them were relatively self centered and not prepared to work when the relationship needed attention

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Yeah this one I can't answer, my first and second hubby couldn't of been more different... Same with the only two guys I was with in the 7 years since my hubby passed...

TonyV · Answer

Mostly that my crushes dont like me back!😂😭

My high school girlfriend broke up with me over a rumor that I kissed some other girl. I didn't and later when she found and was trying to get me to take her back it was too late🤷‍♂️ she didn't trust my word so I was just towards her, not mad or sad or nothing

Jjpayne · Answer

The good
They were open
Willing to try new things
Willing to share

The bad
Some were non religious
Some had unique behavior like "oh you don't wanna get me mad"
Had interests and beliefs that were uninteresting or unappealing to me
Trying to be too independent and not wanting help
Saying that they are comfortable with stealing

But to be fair with the last person I had dated I did not want her to be the one and only option in my adult dating. She was nice and sweet but not a perfect sell. I think it's wise to not fully commit until you go on a couple of other dates to gain your confidence that they are the one but covid kinda messed that up

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

Loved:
showed me a girl's life inside her house (i never had a sister)
Taught me things like awareness and respect of a girl's issues and emotions.
Taught me how to open up as i was a quiet guy, but also how to control myself (emotional intelligence)
Hated:
Sharing things they do with their friends (i was jealous she doesn't do that with me lol)
Spoke to her mom infront of me and learnt that she lies to her mom
(This is a major red flag - compulsive liar)
Their social media, this was the evil that caused me to lose trust in her and our eventual seperation.

Old_Golden · Answer

Good:
-Not afraid to initiate being frisky, no matter where we are
-Willing to spend a chill weekend on the couch
-Down to spend a weekend skydiving or rock climbing
-confident enough to back me up when I'm struggling
-Concious enough to accept my help when they need it

Bad:
-Emotionally abusive
-Manipulative
-Expect me to be the sole source of income and bitch when I say we can't afford her getting a Gucci tank top
-Trying to pry me away from hanging out with my friends

alice55 · Answer

- They all had black hair and tanned skin (only one had pale skin) which is weird cause I'm mostly attracted to blonde pale skinned guys but only get crush on guys with black hair.
- They were all bad boy, the type to do whatever they wanted and cause dramas all the time
- Impulsive
- Conservative
- They worn sweatpants and tracksuit 100 % of the time
- Outgoing and had lots of friends (which made me not pursue anything cause I feel uncomfortable around large groups)

JacobRoto · Answer

I loved how energetic she was. But she was so insecure and nothing I did ever helped her. She ruined our relationship eventually.

Lliam · Answer

Loved:
That they were shorter than me. I'm 6'2" and none of them were over 5'5".
They were independent - had their own apartments/rented houses, jobs, and didn't have to answer to parents.
They were sexually liberated and on the pill.
They were monogamous.
They were soft, curvy, cute and white.

JosyJosy · Answer

Hated: Being Clingy Dishonest Loses common sense during stress Loved: Passionate Funny Ambitious

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What I loved/hated about them is that they were all pretty and they all had nice and friendly personalities. I loved them because of it, but I hated the world (jk) because it never worked out.

KloexJayne · Answer

Hmm... They all have great social skills and great qualities about them individually which makes them hard to hate... and I hate that about my ex’s lol

Phoenix98 · Answer

They all wore glasses every single one of them lol.

krin_m · Answer

Good: - Friendly, kind. - shared a lot of interests (outside sex) Bad: - Sex was an obligatory chore for her.

tjbyrd39 · Answer

Can't really say until recently I wasn't that emotionally available Maybe is what I'm looking for big Life changes evenif Boone here can tell. So I'd say they were all pretty decent but I can't look at my finger on anything that I loved (using loosely) or hated about any of them. Besides they all shared a common physical trait that of course I enjoyed.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Answer

wow you should be getting good at knowing men knowing what you want in a man me well it was the sex is why we got together and the bitchin is the reason we split up.. mostly

Slim57 · Answer

The good is she complimented me and made me feel good about myself but after we broke up she made me feel worse about myself, we had sex a good bit which was good for me but even that wasn't great, everything else about her was horrible i can't understand how I ever came to date someone like that

Dargil · Answer

Disingenuousness. They were not in it for the relationship. I was part of a  plan.  I was gullible and hopeful and they played me. I have concluded that most women are like that, unfortunately.

SarahsSummer · Answer

They all played sports which I loved but they also all hung out with their guy friends more than I cared for.

Anonymous · Answer

They could hardly ever keep their promises, and they lied and cheated (women)

kibbenkat · Answer

They wouldn't open up to me about how they were feeling; rather letting it build up, and harming my relationships with them.

venomhbk1313 · Answer

They did a lot of things that I really liked the only thing I really disliked was that they would talk about people that they don't even know

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Most we're nice caring nurturing

Tstrbrainer · Answer

What I liked about my crush was, her personality, her kindness, her sweet voice, her attitude, confidence, cheerful mood etc

MillieBrunette · Answer

Lack of loyalty, the get aways

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Never been in a relationship lmao

midnightmoon05 · Answer

The story of my life? :P

ttnnkkrr · Answer

just wpuldnt leave the small town

Mehzmeh · Answer

They are quick tempered. Lol

rullysyske · Answer

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