What are some things you hated in general about your past relationships?

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So lemme hit you with the remix... 
 I AM NOT ASKING IF YOU HATED THE PERSON. I AM ASKING WHAT FACTORS YOU DISLIKED ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIPS OF THE PAST. JUST MIX ALL YOUR OLD HOES INTO ONE AND SPEAK IN TERMS OF WHY THE SHIT PROBABLY DID NOT WORK IN THE END 💀 Like damn, I hate reading too, but like damn... When Love Turns to Hate And once again, yes, I freakin love this song because the flow of it reminds me of early 2000s songs by several pop rock bands... #FeelFreeToList #ImOut

Pink2000 · Accepted Answer

Enrique -the cheating. He wasn’t not cute. I’m cute and since he pulled me that gave him the confidence to think he could pull other girls. He fingered a girl in front of people and talked to other girls. I really did love him at that time which is why I stayed. I also had low self esteem and zero confidence.

Arieon- trying to make me jealous. He would say slick stuff like once he told me he still had another girls nudes on his phone and I honestly didn’t care. Then after we broke he tried to make me jealous by letting my homegirl twerk on him right in front of me. I still didn’t care. Then he tried to get a girls number while we were in class. I just didn’t care about any of that.

Seth - he was very boring and instead of talking about our problems he’d shut me out. Which is why it didn’t work out. And I hated his deep ass voice.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

Oh heck, here we go.

- unambitious (no career goals or business ideas or anything)
- lazy (stays home and games all day, can't bring themselves to workout, etc)
- unmanaged mental health (I also have mental health issues I manage actively - it's a requirement for me)
- unable and unwilling to take initiative
- can't carry a conversation
- sex crazed (sex is amazing, don't get me wrong, but there's more to my life than sex)
- lack of experience in life (cishet white men need no longer apply, we have too little in common and I'm not here to educate them on their bigotry and sexism)
- dishonest
- cowardly
- peaked in high school

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I was really bad at conversation when I was younger and people would hate me based on my inability to talk. But I don’t worry about that now, I know the problem is that I was seeking incompatible potentials, not that I was not good enough or attractive enough. Like my cousin likes to talk finance and he loves to talk over me cause I have no finance knowledge to contribute to his conversation. We are not compatible as social associations.

caring__1 · Answer

The qualities that were the biggest turnoffs for me were:
Those who felt guys were lumps of clay to be molded by them
Those with a sense of entitlement
Those who felt they'd get a better result by criticizing
Those who freely made demands
Those who were self-focused and didn't consider how their choices might impact others
Those who believed yelling improved their chances of their being heard
Those who expected to live beyond their means
Those who felt fancy superficialities had more value than depth
Those who spent a lot of time, money and effort on covering up their lack of self care
Those who weren't interested in learning, as they already knew all they needed to know
Those who felt it was their right and duty to push their beliefs onto everyone else
Those who attempted to use guilt to manipulate others'
Those who used kids to get back at others when things didn't go as expected
Those who expected others to read their mind
Those who expected to feel safe, secure and special, yet did nothing to make sure their partner felt the same
Those who prioritized material gain over true connection
Those who felt non-stop talking was the same as communication
Those who felt doing what they valued was the same as doing what others value

MCheetah · Answer

Almost of my exes hated how short I am and almost all of them didn't find me physically attractive in truth but I put up with it I was afraid of being alone. I didn't give them money or anything, but I was an emotional simp in my twenties. I'd be with women who barely liked me, because I knew there was no one else I could get.

But no more! I'm not the same guy as 22 year old me. I will be alone and stay alone than to be used by any woman who doesn't truly like me for who I am and only wanted to use me as a rebound or Plan B.

I'll also NEVER IN MY LIFE make the mistake of being with a "bisexual" female (lesbian) ever again. That was a low-point for me; being with a gay woman who openly says she wants to date/f*ck women. Nowadays, that's beyond normal cuck behavior. I can't think of anything more emasculating than dating someone gay who doesn't even like your gender.

vduong1988 · Answer

yes my ex boyfriend really boring and super religious he did take me to church on valentine’s day it was so boring i feel asleep at the church, he don’t drink and he was living with his parents I break up with him cause i had to move to Virginia cause the job I couldn’t live at Alabama there no job for me there and Alabama was so boring a lot of country people it’s stinky state I found out he got married to mole hawk hairstyle girl i saw his wife pictures she had purple hair style I’m not jealous though i’m happy for him I have a boyfriend I love my boyfriend a lot

melanieeeB · Answer

They couldn't decide for me, they saw me and everything i had to offer and all of them acknowledged that but nobody wanted to stay and I may say, they all had a downgrade after me, two of two relationship-guys even reached out to me after their failed relationships and like rented about their exes lol

Th3ft · Answer

Honestly my last relationship only went bad because of me… so I do t have anything g to hate. She was a people pleaser though and told me things just to ease my mind or because she thought I would like it. And eventually it became a thing that she lied quite readily just to shut me up. Lol! That I didn’t like. But most things were pretty great. I just wasn’t for her.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Their obsession with needing a logical reason when I'm not into something or don't like something. Eg. They show me an ugly t shirt they want to get. I tell them it's ugly. They ask why it's ugly.

His lack of desire to eat healthy and move and his crap attitude when I tried to do so.

Gochogirl · Answer

Knowing I was a certain way, that it was just part of my identity, and acting like it was something they could "fix". If you don't like something about me. Don't start the relationship. I'm not in need of fixing. I'm me.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Poor communication, little effort on their end, felt like I was doing most of the work, not being transparent and direct, quick to get angry when pointing out behavior I didn't like, lies or ambiguous responses.

boldlyblu · Answer

I hated the lack of communication, the lies, manipulation all to his benefit. Sex, drugs, money. None of the benefits were for Us. I hated the pain and emptyness I was left to deal with.

Anpu23 · Answer

At the time I was working in the concert scene and I hated the fact that they would get annoyed when I came home after WORKING at a bar. Yes I drank some but I was paid to be there and the drinks were free.

Dontaaaa · Answer

How the person would sometimes let her anger out on me when (as far as I know) I didn't do anything to deserve it.

She at something did apologize for it at some point, but it's probably the only thing she did that I really didn't like.

SmokyOne · Answer

I think the thing I hate the most is when I start getting accused of things I'm not doing. Typically turns out that she is projecting and gaslighting.
Had a couple that have even swung on me after calling them out. Not dealing with it ever again.

fonduegirl · Answer

How he kept things bottled up. Lot of guys do it, but my ex did it the most. Then when you ask them to fucking spill, they label you as the bad guy of the relationship who doesn't have patience.

Justneedtokno · Answer

I hate that they were manipulative, they played the victim so you can’t have any issues with what they did. They were never positive or wish positivity for me.

Marianna546 · Answer

I disliked that they didn't respect my boundaries and treated me like a sex object. I think i found someone better now

Marshymallow · Answer

One didn’t speak up about his feelings. Another was overly possessive and extremely arrogant.

Kabluie · Answer

Resentment, once it's in, you really can't get it out. It just helps when someone does not lie to me to win my affection.

Phoenix98 · Answer

That I put myself in relationships where I was clearly getting the short end of the stick so to speak.

exitseven · Answer

I had a 4 year relationship with somebody who put very little effort into the relationship. She was always too busy.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I didn't like that she made choices or conclusions based on assumptions. I think its a terrible trait to have.

Avicenna · Answer

Almost all of my relationships prior to age 45 ended because of ordinary life changes like either her or me moving away, so I don't have complaints about them.

Since then, I'd say lack of a desire to stay long term in a relationship and do what it takes to compromise on some things.

Valso · Answer

That when I wanted to see her, she always found an excuse for that not to happen. And in the little time were together, she'd give more attention to her friends than to me.

boredgal · Answer

the lack of honesty, lack of intimacy, lack of time.

loveslongnails · Answer

I never liked a girl who wanted me to be someone, or something, I was not. You don't always know this right away when you're dating someone.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The lack of affection. Never feeling like a real priority.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

There sense of entitlement.  Especially when they feel they don’t have to hold them selves accountable. While holding me accountable.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I've been in only one relationship and I hated that he wanted premarital sex so badly. He would constantly tell me how frustrated he felt.

kellytheman · Answer

Some was long distance relationships which never works.

nawtee_me · Answer

Walking in the door and having to duck to keep from getting hit with a plate.

Anonymous · Answer

I Used to Abuse people That talk down to me and Treat me like I’m Stupid I sometimes physically Abuse my Friends if they Act Stupid I Guide them In the right path they know who’s boss and they Respect me for it they Know they need me and they are Co dependent On me for emotional Support.

JoseJr · Answer

I always hated that my ex girl was always late to stuff. Like not casually late, like straight up an hour or two late to events/ places. Like dawg you have no respect for anyones time frame

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I learned from the past, grow from and don’t look back. if we keep thinking about the past we will not have a future..

NathanDavis · Answer

nothing that big or relevant to be worth of remembering... lol

TrillXHippy · Answer

I was going to say that it was a long distance relationship but that’s just how it was. She gave me a great reason why we couldn’t see each other and I respected that

Agape93 · Answer

Presumptions in general because of my gender.

belle_kai · Answer

Eyeballing other girls infront of me. Such disrespect

baserunner611 · Answer

You help the other female, she say one thing you can't get her to do with she say.  Drive me crazy

Sparkie460 · Answer

After dating them for a while I realized that we weren't totally compatible together.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

sharing me out to his friends

Zolly99999 · Answer

The cheating and lying

michael1469 · Answer

Lazy, not willing to work on goals to enhance life now or in future.

krin_m · Answer

Her clingy and jealous behavior. Ugh.

legalboxers · Answer

everything...

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