What is your biggest regret about your past relationships?

[Itsmeirem]

[sawno]

Two specific things I did that I think contributed to her leaving me, I wish I hadn't done them. It was small things and in one of them I was panicking and in a very bad mental state due to sleep deprivation and being trapped in a noisy room. But knowing what I know now I could have avoided both of those situations.

Grown a lot since so once I am in a new relationship either with someone new or with a second chance I think I can make it work this time.

[Anonymous]

Being involved with a manipulative toxic narcissistic bitch. She got off on drama, loved to gaslight, lie, manipulate, start arguments and would push and keep pushing until she got a violent physical response from me which she got a thrill out of it and it made her aroused sexually. In the latter stages she would think nothing of throwing objects at me or hitting with a weapon. Then of course she could play the victim and she loved that attention, then she would be back to me that night looking sex and a few tjmes claimed i had forced myself upon her. Of course everyone believed the skinny little red haired blue eyed pale angel faced 5ft little hottie over the 6ft6 black man. Had to move states to get away from her because after I dumped her she went to the police claiming rape, bullying, domestic abuse, harassment, stalking, financial control, emotional abuse, theft, property damage etc.

[RageBabe]

I felt like I could have written the first half of this myself.

[VIVANT]

I do find all of my regrets always term from my unwillingness to confront my own feelings and communicate clearly with others whether I’m romantic situations or other. you can mess up important opportunities real fast by ignoring your truth.

[just_a_potato]

I wish I knew I was being taken advantage of everytime, won't let it happen again.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, jumping right into the deep end, are we? If I were to sprinkle a little honesty and stardust on this, I'd say my biggest regret about past relationships was not fully understanding my own self-worth and boundaries earlier on. It's like dancing to a song you don't really like because you haven't found your rhythm yet. Learning to value myself and what I bring to the table was a game changer—it turned me from a background dancer into the main act in my own love story. Each relationship is a stepping stone, a lesson waiting to be learned, or a bittersweet melody leading us to where we're meant to be. 😉 So, what's your melody? Share the beat, and let's harmonize!

[Purpleronnie]

I’m not sure I regret any past relationships , other than the general fact that they had to end but I do however regret a few one night stands.

[thegreenyogi]

Falling for a type that was not good for me at. I've become much wiser and more aware of what kind of person I need though.

[FunkyMonkee]

That I didn't drop Anu about 5 years in and wasted another 5 of my life hoping she'd come to her senses!

[MicahRaine]

That it ever happened. It was a good relationship, but I just wish it never happened because things would be simpler.

[Nikki1989]

Life is too short to have regrets.

[RyanR03]

Yeah but Everyone has regrets. If you don’t you are a sociopath. Thats just a trendy mantra to recite but I don’t think anyone but lunatics pull it off

[exitseven]

there was one where i was too afraid to tell her how I felt.

[itsannalee]

That i did not break up earlier.

[Nifrayu]

I regret being so defensive and unwilling to acknowledge my own issues.

[SoJust]

I have no regrets, it was like that then, it was supposed to be like that

[FarmBoy13]

Trusting someone who actually bragged about being a good liar

[virtualwasp]

Attending them

[Agape93]

Trusting the wrong person

[anon1903]

didn't know I was aro

[college-student2021]

So that means you don’t experience romantic feelings?

[anon1903]

@college-student2021 not entirely true, but yes

[college-student2021]

Interesting.

If I may ask, But do you still feel sexual urges as a Aro?

[anon1903]

Yes of course

[college-student2021]

But are they weekly or it’s rare with you as a Aro?

[anon1903]

I think my sex drive is quite normal

[college-student2021]

Oh ok

[Nik1hil]

That it does not exist

[missindiana93]

Nothing. Besides wasting my time.

[Yannae]

That I didn't end things sooner with her.

[Crazzyyworld]

Being a dick. I should have relied on him.

[woahhh152]

That I didn't kick her out sooner

[CubaPirate]

Not ending quicker

[HawkPerception]

Being in them.

[jamesgoldman]

Not proposing

[Scorpionn_l]

Sexx