For not making the first move or saying 'I love you're. I was 12 then, and I really wanted to say it, but my past boyfriends wouldn't probably mean it or say it back. They asked me to be their girlfriend because I was the only female tween in the class. They never told me that I looked beautiful, pretty or cute.
My first boyfriend was 17. He just wanted sex.
My second boyfriend only dated me because I was around his age. He was 15 and inches shorter than me. When there was a new student that I know, transfering to our school, he asked me if she was hot before the girl came to our school. He asked me if it would be ok for him to have me and her at the same time. The girl disagreed and he went out with her and dumped me. Basically, he dumped me for a girl who I hate.
My third boyfriend was my age, even though my birthday is before his. He was a different race than me unlike my two past boyfriends. He was a couple of inches shorter than me. He broke up with me. Obviously, I was his side-chick. He never failed to make me laugh, though...
What I regret most in my past relationships, is that I never should've gotten a lover in the first place. I did had a girlfriend in 2017. She was a year younger than me. Her mother found out about me dating her daughter - saw nudes I sent her after I refused to send them - reported me to the police as a sex offender - and moved away with her two daughters, two sons and husband. I do not know where she's at or how she's doing. Her mother took all of her connections that she had with me away.
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Being completely loyal and devoted to someone who was your absolute world, only for 3 years to be for nothing when they move on in a matter of weeks into a new relationship.
I do not regret anything about my 2nd relationship. It was good when it lasted, there when I needed it, taught me the lessons I needed and ended when it needed to and the breakup process was not drawn out. I feel mostly the same about my first relationship, but I do have one regret. When we first broke up, there was a chance for us to talk peacefully and to be cordial and maybe even friends after. We loved each other a lot and the relationship ended because her stepdad convinced her I was a bad guy. Basically it was him, not her, that ended it. My regret is that, out of sheer pain, I said and did some stupid things. Those things served to prove her stepdad right and we lost ALL contact. The reason I regret this is because my first love was the reason I decided to be something more than just a guy who loved fighting. She taught me what love really was and how to serve others. I just wish we could talk now so she could see the good her influence had on my life, even years later. I tried several times to reach out to her, both for closure and to show her I was not pure evil.
I once was in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to. Worst relationship mistake of my life. Moreover, she was very much into me. She was very hurt when things inevitably ended. Being affectionate with her became a chore; not something to look forward to at all. I hurt her and I hurt myself. I never did it again.
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How long it took to extract myself from that person, situation. Which I can't just blame on them, I had fault in that too. But better late than never lol
My biggest regret in one of my relationships is not ending it earlier. I was actually just thinking about this earlier today. With an ex who ended up being a cheater, I wish I would have stayed away from him the first time I got a hint of him being a player. But I ignored some of the signs. That's something I really regret. I wish I would have been able to dodge that bullet by listening to my instincts.
I was in a relationship and she broke it off with me because the new guy was more generous financially than I was. I begged for her to take me back but she wouldn't. But I kept trying. She said I was a desperate fool and she was right.
My regret is that I kept on trying to get back together with her. I regret that I revealed my desperation to her.Dwelling in the past can and often will obscure ones path forward. You should never dwell in the past and never regret the past. Because you will be bringing yourself to a complete stop. Also never simply move pasty regrets. Because they can lead you to a new way forward, that you would have never find otherwise. So its best to work through a regret, so you can start looking for a path forward.
I am in a really difficult situation with my present boyfriend, I don't even know if I should call him that. He is very hot and cold and I allowed it and let it slide in the very beginning despite not liking it and now I feel like he believes he can do anything and get away with it.
staying in toxic/unloving relationships because I believed in loyalty and love, you don't realize the relationship is that bad because of rose tinted glasses, once it's over and time passed you realize then, experience is the best teacher sometimes and shows you what you value.
After my past relationships, loyalty and love are pretty much my only requirement for dating but that's finding a unicorn these days, I hear about them but never see them, but I'll hold out I supposeMy current relationship, not a past one. But i regret not having sex earlier. I was worried because of some very VERY upsetting sexual experienced beforehand that made sex a little scary for me again, but when we did it.. it was AMAZING. We instantly got closer and i only wish we started sooner. The only downside was she was limping home with me...
My biggest regret would be that I made meth, every time I made meth my girlfriend would fuck the first guy she saw and I made meth at least once a week why she didn't fuck me is a real good question that I never got an answer to but my shit was good, to good
If I could go back in time to the day I called my first girlfriend on the phone. I would shoot myself in the head
in fact I would empty the clip
my next biggest regret is still being here planing on fixing thatvsoon
In this misandrist society the best gift a new mother can give to her son is an abortion there is no place anymore for men but walking atm and dangerous laborIgnoring RED FLAGS. Especially the little ones that you feel deep inside. The part of your soul that says i don't belong with this person.
Boundaries are very important in a relationship. I regret not being mature enough to have set some before i entered my last relationship.
Don't ignore your heart.My biggest problem in my first relationship was not realizing what I had. And how precious it was.
I should have been more forgiving and more understanding
I walked away over one mistake she made. And now I think about her often. She was an amazing girl...Usually I have something. I'd say dating someone who could improve themselves. You want someone at their best so you know you are their first choice. Not date and watch them improve and you support then they leave after you helped them. Yep men. Take note.
Not getting closure and being the one to dump him. He said some horrid things and then ghosted me, so it took me a long time to stop believing them and realising how horrid he was. Never got the chance to tell him how awful he was to me so it has taken a long while to repair the damage he caused
Well, I was below the age of criminal responsibility and I could have beat the living shit out of the whore. I could have destroyed her body like she tried destroying my lifez and what could she have done? Gone to the police and prove what exactly? I could have fucking killed her and left her to rot like the filth she was and I'll never forgive myself for not doing so.
My wife past away last year and I have several regrets one of them is she was supposed to have both legs amputated at the knee and she asked me to stand her up on her feet and hold her there one last time and I didn't and then About a week late she passed
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Lack of communication made things difficult. Nothing went bad exactly, just we couldn't be real open with each other and that was a problem that stopped the relationship from ever progressing. I'm trying to get better about that.
My biggest regret was all the options I had but didn't have the confidence to pursue. Yes as You get older You realize You wasted a lot of opportunities to better Yourself and honestly from a guys viewpoint any relationship is beneficial.
It would have to be ignoring red flags. As well as wanting to break up several times because we wanted different things and allowing them to convince me to stay.
Broke up with my ex right after her godson just died.
Not proud of that one.
I don't regret the breakup in and of itself, just the timing. I should've stuck around.
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