My biggest regret was actually not giving someone a second chance. Yes they had hurt me, but we were both young and dumb. I moved away for 2 years and when I came back she was completely different and was ashamed at what she had done. Unfortunately, I was too pompous to give her a second chance.
being a jerk then not going after her after i was the jerk. been living with it for 28 years. its an odd ball thing no one really does as much now but i still do regret it though.
There is one that I regret not having the knowledge, wit or experience to know how to save. We loved each other and I could have saved the relationship if I had known how. But you live and learn.
Not being as agressive or confident. Sometimes it pays to not be afraid to try things even though it's risky
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One regret I had to leave her because it was not working out between us I had to make the hard choice. I was glad she hated me after the breakup but when I explained and apologized after a year she understood.
That's our problem as men We can't live alone without love because it literally kills us inside where as women they can. You notice this in very old couples whom have been together for a long time. If the woman dies first the man generally dies within two years where as if the opposite happens the woman can live 10+ more years alone. I really don't think women really fall in love to be honest. I think they more in love with what a man brings to the table. Men on the other hand do fall in love I believe and there are plenty of proofs considering the majority of love poetry and ballads are written by men.
At the age of 30 I decided to stop cheating! I can honestly say I haven't nor will I ever cheat again! And yes I still feel bad for those that I cheated on !
Texting someone else and getting caught I will never do it again and lose that frust in the relationship. It was never that same and ultimately ended. It was not worth the chase.
No regrets. Each relationship teaches me something, and if the relationship were meant to be it still would be.
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Not a relationship but I was talking to a girl that I liked at first. After a few dates I started to lose a little interest, but I should’ve went on and maybe be together officially
I didn't stick around long enough with this one woman who was really sensual and loving, because she wasn't forthcoming about something important. Looking back, I should have.
I took economic advantage of one chick. Didn’t realize til years later. I recently contacted her and she claims not to remember. But I was able to help her out and felt better.
Not hearing what she was reallt saying. When my fiance left I felt blindsided. But in hindsight she definitely made comments to indicate that she wasn't sticking around. I just didn't hear it that way at the time.
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My biggest regret was actually not giving someone a second chance. Yes they had hurt me, but we were both young and dumb. I moved away for 2 years and when I came back she was completely different and was ashamed at what she had done. Unfortunately, I was too pompous to give her a second chance.
being a jerk then not going after her after i was the jerk. been living with it for 28 years. its an odd ball thing no one really does as much now but i still do regret it though.
There is one that I regret not having the knowledge, wit or experience to know how to save. We loved each other and I could have saved the relationship if I had known how. But you live and learn.
Not being as agressive or confident. Sometimes it pays to not be afraid to try things even though it's risky
One regret I had to leave her because it was not working out between us I had to make the hard choice.
I was glad she hated me after the breakup but when I explained and apologized after a year she understood.
Continuing it even when there were red flags over her toxicity, just to desperately continue feeling “loved” 😓💔
That's our problem as men We can't live alone without love because it literally kills us inside where as women they can. You notice this in very old couples whom have been together for a long time. If the woman dies first the man generally dies within two years where as if the opposite happens the woman can live 10+ more years alone. I really don't think women really fall in love to be honest. I think they more in love with what a man brings to the table. Men on the other hand do fall in love I believe and there are plenty of proofs considering the majority of love poetry and ballads are written by men.
@jkm1864 And break-up songs are mostly written by women 😅
At the age of 30 I decided to stop cheating! I can honestly say I haven't nor will I ever cheat again! And yes I still feel bad for those that I cheated on !
Texting someone else and getting caught
I will never do it again and lose that frust in the relationship. It was never that same and ultimately ended. It was not worth the chase.
Anal with a black man. Now I whistle when I fast.
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No regrets. Each relationship teaches me something, and if the relationship were meant to be it still would be.
Not a relationship but I was talking to a girl that I liked at first. After a few dates I started to lose a little interest, but I should’ve went on and maybe be together officially
I didn't stick around long enough with this one woman who was really sensual and loving, because she wasn't forthcoming about something important. Looking back, I should have.
Nothing because without those mistakes, u can't improve ur life and make the right discision
Staying long after it was obvious I needed to leave.
being in them and ever being emotionally invested in another human being. has yet to disappoint royally.
Nothing, really.
I was wrong about opening up to her but that's all there's to it. The outcome wouldn't have been different any other way.
I took economic advantage of one chick. Didn’t realize til years later. I recently contacted her and she claims not to remember. But I was able to help her out and felt better.
Not leaving sooner 😂🙌
Not hearing what she was reallt saying. When my fiance left I felt blindsided. But in hindsight she definitely made comments to indicate that she wasn't sticking around. I just didn't hear it that way at the time.
I kissed a guy during girls night on a date. My ex knew and I got dumped for being a slut
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Playing a drinking game of dare
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