He watches my stories but doesn't accept my follow request?

[sheikalana]

Me and my ex haven't spoke to each other for more than a month. We never officially broke up but it's pretty clear to me that he's not interested anymore. In between I found out his instagram account and decided to send him a follow request. He never accepted my follow request but yesterday I've noticed he was seeing my stories. What do you think of this? I'm confused.

[Hangry22]

He wants to know what you're doing but doesn't want to lead you on. People watching stories doesn't mean much. It's kind of a curiosity to just click and see.
Make your account private and see if he accepts

[sheikalana]

Already did a few days ago. Didn't accept.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

He just wants to see what you're upto but has no intention of getting back with you so he refused to accept the request. Id personally block him to show him where he stands. If he wants to know you, he can do a lot better than just watching your stories.

[AdithyaR]

He's simply checking up to see what you're up to. Common habit for people to stalk their exes on social media.
Block him if it bothers you.

[sheikalana]

Honestly it doesn't bother me. I'm just curious.

[AdithyaR]

Cool

[mrgspoter]

Probably enjoys it and thinks how desperate you must be to still keep on trying

[sheikalana]

Me trying? LOL I'm not trying absolutely anything. I was the one who stopped talking to him long time ago he's the one who keeps contacting me while I keep ignoring him. How desperate is that?

[mrgspoter]

You said he wasn't interested and you followed him so it's how it sounds

[sheikalana]

Dude, when I sent him the follow request I wasn't even sure about where we stand. So any person who sends me a follow request is desperate now?

[mrgspoter]

Well you did feel the need for this question too

[sheikalana]

Because I'm confused. Am I not allowed to feel confused now? As far as I know this a website where you post your questions/doubts about anything.

[mrgspoter]

Well that is likely what he is thinking too you know or thinking he's playing you into a game as they do

[Wise4myage]

He sounds like a stalker to me.

[sheikalana]

Surprisingly I never knew he could be a stalker.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I'm guessing they could be sneaky.