Found out he cheated on me now he is crying and begging should I just ignore him now?

[Anonymous]

I found out my ex cheated AGAIN in August a couple days ago.. the worst part is he cheated
DURING me giving him a second chance for cheating in June. Currently, he's begging and pleading saying he was drunk and it was all a mistake he was going through things blah blah blah. Saying all the things he told me when I first found out he cheated. I told him I'm done with him cause honestly, he is not worth my sanity. He just keeps texting paragraphs upon paragraphs saying he's never gonna give up trying cause I was really good to him and he really messed him and I'm the one he truly loves.. LOL. I was responding but I stopped replying because there is nothing more for me to say.. if he texts again should I just ignore it and let him deal with his own mess up?

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+1 y

Despite what he did to me... I really did truly love him so it's hard to ignore but I do know that isn't love.

[ririissleepy]

Personally I dont think that if a person cheats it necessarily means that they dont love their S. O. anymore. People often still love the person but had a lapse in judgement.

The problem is that people loke that will never change. There is definetly a lack of self control and commitments to the relationship.

Honestly it is up to you if you are ready to deal with that person in the future. But if you get with him again there is a high possibility of him doing "it" again.

I would try to distance myself in your position. But I know that it can be hard to do so.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's definitely true, Do you mean to distance myself as in stop responding to him?

[Hangry22]

Ignore and block that asshole. He was drunk and remembered his boner and not his girlfriend who he "truly loves". Don't give him another chance no matter what he says. Cheaters will be cheaters forever. If you forgive and take him back, he will think it's ok to do it again and again

[havingfun101]

Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows and 80% of children with behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes... I'm just guessing but one or both of you may have been the latter and considering the former, working it out through frank communication may be a good idea.

[JPrez]

Your choice. Take him back and he could cheat again but maybe not. No way to know for sure. Or, move on and let some other girl deal with him. Find someone new with better morals.

[puddin33]

Sit him on the naughty step