He cheated and now I'm ignoring him?

[Anonymous]

My guy cheated on me and I found out. Now, I am ignoring him and not even going to bother to let him know that I found out.

Im not takng his texts, emails, or calls.

I don't want to waste my time with him, he has hurt me.

Do you yall think this is a good idea?

I don't want to argue, so I choose this way instead.

[Jaymi6]

I actually think you are doing the right thing. For now. Regardless, I think you will need to face the situation eventually. As someone else already said, he WILL shift the blame onto you. At this point however, you may just not care what he thinks which is completely understandable.

I think what you are doing is good because you can really get your thoughts in order and logically look at how you are going to approach the situation. As an impulsive person, I completely envy your ability to do this, and understand how IMPORTANT it is to take the time to let everything soak in before lashing out with a reaction. You DO need to give him a reaction, however; looking back you will probably regret never getting to say all the things you think and feel. Even if it's just to tell him what a douchebag you think he is.

If you're worried he may be able to talk you into staying with him and THAT is why you are avoiding him. It would be best to maybe wait until you feel stronger in the situation and know you will be able to prevent this from happening. If it's genuinely about not wanting to waste anymore time on him, good for you! Clearly he doesn't deserve your time, but you need to confront him for you.

My advice, do not try to say everything you have to say in a text. If you are unable to bring yourself to doing it in person. Try the phone. But don't do it through text messaging or email.

[cazzy]

wow! that's really hard. I would send him one last text saying that you know what he has done. then I would ignore any texts or calls from HIM

At least then he'll know HE was the one that f***ed up and he won't be able to blame you for the break-up!

Hope this helps

[vampirefreako]

If you know for a fact he cheated on you then heck yes! he cheated on you, he doesn't deserve to be talk to. I went out wit a guy and he cheated on me too. I did the same thing. it's painful but you're better off witout him. hope this helps:-)

[WeaponZero]

Before I answer your question, I'm going to say one thing. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW 100% FOR A FACT THAT HE IS CHEATING. You wouldn't believe all the bullshit that happens just because a guy or girl has reason to SUSPECT that their signifcant other may be cheating but then turns out they're not. Don't trust what anyone else says they saw or heard when coming to this conclusion, only trust your own eyes and ears. (You can tell this has happened to me).

Now, ASSUMING he is cheating, the best way to go about it is to confront him about it AFTER YOU HAVE SUBSTANTIAL, UNDISPUTABLE EVIDENCE. Tell him that the relationship is over, tell him why, make sure he doesn't have any of your stuff and you don't have any of his stuff, and let that be that. Never speak to him again afterwards.

[Shack]

wow,this is damn seriuos and I think you will keep him wondering the whole of his life what he did wrong that you just ignored him.emm.he might shift blames on you for the break-up and might tell his friends his done all his best all to get a bad scene in the end.At least a clue will make to let him know.You heart is too fragile and you can't give up to some-one who cannot handle it with extra care.BELIEVE ME HE WILL SHIFT BLAMES ON YOU.let him have a clue at least that you caught him!so he should take a bow.

[Lost-in-Toga]

I disagree completely with your decision. You have to talk to him about it. Make sure he actually did. And if he did. then you can never talk to him again.

[GirlScout]

No, I think this will just cause more issue than you need. Just send him one text telling him you know, and that's it.

[labellaprincesa]

you are doing the right thing by ignoring him