What to do when you are ghosted?

[aphrodite420]

Everything was smooth for five years being friends with benefits to treating each other boyfriend girlfriend and one day we ghosted each other and now I miss him. We're in a long-distance relationship too. I'm losing hope. Should I just accept and move on?

[Anonymous]

I would let it go, because the situation was dead ended. Treating eachother like boyfriend/girlfriend but you’re only friends with benefits is not a relationship, and after 5 years, if you didn’t make it official then it was never going to be. I don't know if you want a relationship, but if you do, then you should look for someone who wants the same thing and not getting up your hopes how your fling seemed to.

[aphrodite420]

Thanks! That makes sense. Appreciate the perspective.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries! Hang in there🤍