My boyfriend and I have been together for years (it’s a happy and healthy relationship). Him and his ex (of a couple of years ago, he left her for me because she treated him really badly) used to love each other a lot, until they both messed up and screwed each other over. They hate each other with a passion now, and in the hallway they always insult each other and can’t be in the same room together. Why do they still care enough to do this? His ex is also in a happy relationship, and she doesn’t go out of her way to make him mad, she only gets mad if he tries to make her mad.
My boyfriend is obsessed with his ex?
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Just sounds like he hates her?
But why does he try to hurt her so much
Because she hurt him? What did she do?
He cheated on her, and she snooped through his phone and lied about it but I don’t know why that’s so bad for him to be this mad years later, especially when he’s with me and she’s dating another guy
He sounds jealous
But why? He dumped her
I still loved my ex boyfriend when I dumped him. He probably dumped her to get away from her.
True... he didn’t WANT to dump her he just had to. He only started dating me because I treated him better (he does love me though), and now he’s mad that she’s in a happy relationship with another guy and she treats him right. He might be thinking “I wish that was me” but he also hates her
Like I said b4 he sounds jealous
You should suggest the two should talk and squash their beef
I'd find another.
But we have been together for years
It doesn't matter if you've been together for CENTURIES if he hasn't moved on yet
Do you think he still likes her? He thinks she’s a terrible person yet goes out of his way to ruin her life
No, but he hasn't moved on. Her life shouldn't matter anymore.
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