My son is 2. He has recently started tipping the dog's food into it's water. He then slaps his own leg and says "I don't listen!" It's cute because we don't smack him but he's just looking for our attention.
Because he's 2 we indulge him a bit and give him some positive attention.
Your ex, on the other hand, should be ignored. If he doesn't get it, I suggest using restraining orders and filing a case for hate speech for repeated use of the word "nigga", and arrange for him to have English language lessons.
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Omg the last paragraph of what you said was so funny 😂😂I like your sarcasm. His English is very bad and he types like he’s in the first grade. I just ignore him all together and blocked him on Gmail and apple email because I don’t want to even be bothered to LOOK at what he has to say lmao
Block. No response. Do nothing to reward or validate his behavior. Picture Ceasar Milan saying "No touch, no talk, no eye contact."
And if you have any reason to fear anything he might do, talk to someone at the local PD about a restraining order. The showing up at your parents' place stuff is a form of stalking. Be safe out there !
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Exactly! And also coming to my job and waiting for me to get out of work. That is extremely creepy. Luckily he’s banned from coming to my job but I want him to stop emailing me. Can I tell the police about him contacting me through email? Is texting someone over and over a crime?
If you tell them what's been going on in detail, and show them a reasonable amount of evidence to back it up, the least they can do is give you some decent advice on your options and point you in the right direction. I imagine they deal with this kind of thing ALL the time.
For both of our emotional health it’s best that we stop all contacts. And heal so that we can better ourselves for our future relationships. Thank you for being a part of my life for the time being. I wish you the best, I don’t regret the time we had together. We both learned a lot and are very young. We can learn from it and be more mature. Take care... something like that to conclude a relationship then block and move on.
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I have said stuff like this to him many times. We broke up in June 2020 and I’ve tried to be understanding but it’s about 8 months later and he is STILL persistent. It’s very annoying. And no matter how much I ignore him, he still send me stuff. Even when I do not reply.
Honestly, I’m tired of dealing with shitty men. Dated someone after this one that love bombed tf outta me and then when I broke up with him he told me he didn’t care for me so I’m emotionally unavailable and focusing on myself. How about yourself?
I didn’t understand what he said either 😂😂 like he’s just rambling and not making any sense. On Gmail when I blocked him, his emails just go through spam but I blocked him emails on apple mail. I hope now he won’t be able to get through at all. Not even in my spam. I just deleted this email and deleted from my trash email as well and I didn’t say anything 😂😂
Honestly? The email is not about you at all. Dont take it personally. They have cancer and they are scared. This is the anger stage of grief.
Why you? They could be angry about possibly dying and they see the breakup means they may die without true love.
If you fo bvn choose to contact them be kind and gentle. Ignore the bs. Focus only on the cancer and express how bad you feel about their sickness.
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We broke up almost a year ago and tbh, he’s always making up lies to get attention from people. First he was hit by a car, then he got robbed, then a random group of men jumped him, then he was homeless, and I told him to fuck off for the hundredth time and Now he has cancer?
I don’t have any sympathy for him AT ALL. Even if he isn’t lying and actually did get diagnosed with cancer, why is he telling ME? To break up means to go your separate ways and move on with your life. It’s like no matter how mean I am towards hiM he still wants to talk to me because he likes the attention whether it be negative or positive...
I hope they teach grammar and punctuation on the other side !
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Yes his grammar is horrible. I didn’t even understand what he said but I did block him. I also blocked him on apple email too so now he for sure shouldn’t be able to get through. I don’t even wanna see him in my spam.
Ignore him and block him. He is an EX... ancient history.. you will not be able to heal and move on until his communications are blocked or he stops... never answer.
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I found a way on my phone to block him from going even to spam. I blocked him on everything else but he will NOT leave me alone. He made my life a living hell and now he does this narcissistic shit by lying in the email that he has cancer. And then he came to my parents house and lied to my mom that he got robbed, and then he got hit by a car. And then it was someone broke into his apartment. He does this narcissistic shit all the time. Why does he think saying these lies will make me want him back like what is the point?
He wants you to feel sorry for him. As long as you do not communicate with him at all and your parents refuse to communicate with him, he will *eventually* get tired of it and leave you alone to find another victim. Just be patient.
But the sad thing is that I don’t feel sad for him at all, not one bit. My parents are aware of his lies too and they told me that he is crazy. He even waited for me outside of my job for me and I got him banned from there. What is wrong with him? Is he like mentally unstable?
Respondong will just encourage him to contact you more
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Yea I’m thinking of just deleting this email completely and ignoring. He will not stop no matter how mean I am and he’s a narcissist, so he always has a sobb story. Why will he not leave me alone?
Ignore, but if he is telling the truth in that email, no one should be dating you anyway.
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No one should be dating me? Do you understand that he’s a narcissistic pathological liar. He lies about things like this ALL the time for attention. And he abused me the entire relationship
Did you mention that in your original post? No.. So my response here is your fault, if there is more to the story, then you should tell it, lest you have misunderstandings like mine.
I didn’t want to go into depth detail but basically, he mentally and physically abused me for 8 months of our relationship. I decided to leave him and he would not take no for an answer. He harassed me with text messages and phone calls so I blocked him and he attempted to contact me everywhere else and I blocked him there too.
Then he went to my apartment in the middle of the night and I called the cops on him, the cops didn’t do anything and then he went to my parent’s house and lied to them about being homeless and told my neighbors at my parent’s house a lie too.
And then he went to my job and did the same things! Waited for me to get off of work and he begged and pleaded and cried and then he did this about 3 times and the 3rd time I got him banned from the store.
Sorry if this is kind of a silly question but can I get a restraining order because he keeps contacting me through via email? He has not bothered me or my family in real life.
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