When a ex girlfriend plays mind games?

[Anonymous]

When a Ex girlfriend of someone is broken up with the person they said they loved and they play mind games with them,

Does this mean they are practically over you? that they are just bored and just doing this for their own ways to stroke their ego?

[Anonymous]

i used to play mind gems with my ex, so I could keep him interested and wanted me more. I still loved him at the time. now when I do it, he just tells me to fu*k off. I still want him, but I blew it.

[Asker]

but my ex is cold. I doubt she is trying to go for anything with me. she just wants to stroke her ego I bet

[Elisue]

She doesn't necessarily have to be over him, to play mind games with him. Sometimes they do it to win you back and sometimes they do it to get revenge.

[Asker]

well. she dumped me. I didn't do anything wrong to her. she just said she couldn't do it anymore. cause we were long distance. but now she contacts and then stops. its annoying. I wish she'd grow up and be straight with me. I don't know what she wants other than games.

[Elisue]

If you ask me, she doesn't know what she wants.

[Asker]

yeah, I guess you are right. she's a cold one.

[Deniz]

It means they're not over you and possibly also hurting since they feel the need to 'play with your emotions' too.

[PopMart1997]

Hi, would you please elaborate on this point?

[Quadrophonic84]

Can't say whether or not she's over you but it's definitely about making things interesting. Yeah, probably over you too.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking. I sent her 2 msgs on FB b4 - no response for a week. Then I sent her a friendly "quote" that I thought would mean something to her. she sends me a message on the iChat thing. I sent her another FB message telling her sorry I missed her msg. but now I told her I know she's playing mind games with me. She will defend herself sayin she's not probably. but I know she is.

just another b*tch down the drain

[Anonymous]

it means they are not over you. if they were over, they would let go

[Asker]

Well, my ex is cold acting. she'll contact me then not really talk and leave. I contact her with a message, she never replies. she only replies when she contacts me first and we chat. so, its just games from what I take it and that she is over me. she just wants attention in my opinion.

im not really sure how girls really live with themselves when they do this stuff. I've told her I still love her very much and care for her and all. but. still she insists on doing this same stuff