My ex moved on so quickly yet said he doesn't want relationship with any one, why would do this guy's, and with a girl he even said is not his type?

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My ex left me saying he wanted to focus on himself and didn't want a relationship and that he loved me and only wants me and that I will be first girl he gets with when he is ready again, so he moved out and then 2 months later in a new relationship, and the worst part is its with a girl his friend dated that he told me when we broke up wasn't even his type and said nasty things about her and now he is in a relationship with her... She also just came out of a relationship 2 months ago, I don't know if they each others rebound, but I don't understand why he lied to me saying he loves me and only wants me then jumped Into another, what's your opinion on this? It's a trashy girl compared to myself I did everything for this man and he even spoke about how he will never find anyone like me again then does this

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

If he's not ready for a commitment, yet he doesn't want to be alone, it's safest to choose someone that isn't his type. That makes it easier for him to stay disconnected. Chances are, he's still going through adolescence and has no idea who he is, where he is going or what he wants. When we commit before we are ready, it becomes too easy to just become a clone of the partner and never discover one's true identity. Don't attempt to understand his choices. He probably doesn't understand them, either. Become the person you want to be and live the life you want to live. Don't put your life on hold, waiting for him to return.

teamvic · Accepted Answer

Wait so you're telling me both your ex and that girl both just soooo happened to get out of their relationships at the Samee time and then just soooo happened to get together?

Girl this is easy he lied, he just said all that stuff so the break up wouldn't be bad

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps he couldn't hack a real relationship with you (who he says he loved) found himself very lonely without you and with physical needs picked up a play thing knowing that the relationship demands would be light and he can throw her away when needed. She's mrs right now and a toy.