What would you do if you found out that the person you're dating was still legally married? (Page 2)

[KittyBites]

Hiding anything in a relationship is a huge red flag, especially being married. Being separated for a long time with no divorce is another red flag. He's still attached to his wife and keeping her as a safety net.

[Leavesbound]

I would have to investigate to find out if this was going to lead to a divorce or if in fact there was a chance of future reconciliation. I have no desire to waste my time on a relationship that is likely temporary.

[Nik1hil]

Get a video of us doing it..
The day she tries to end our sex relationship..
Blackmail her.. Into continues sex otherwise the hubby gets the clip..
, 😂😂more sex for me.. JK
She calls my bluff..
I don't send the video..
I won't actually destroy her relationship

OF Course it's end of the dating unless her husband is cuck and wants this..

[Nik1hil]

@ninjazzed upvoted me WTF 🤣😂🤣😂

[DisappointingHope]

Marriage is really nothing but some fancy words on a piece of paper if you don't value it. I would assume that the person didn't value that marriage very much if they were seperated for a while.

[PinkMichae]

If he told me before the first date I'd stay. But from your question it sounds like you mean if they were deceptive by keeping it from you while you two were going on dates. Then I'd end it.

[ChrisMaster69]

If just dating and they are separated, then just continue but make it clear there was not going to be a relationship, it was sex only.

if in a relationship dump them

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would break things off with them and never talk to them again
My elderly cousin was married to this guy and here he was also
married so he managed some how to slip through the loops to
marry my cousin

[exitseven]

I would want to keep seeing them but I would want some timeline about getting a divorce and I would want to make sure that the husband would not be waiting for me outside my office with a couple of his friends.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Well oftentimes a marriage is "over" long before the paperwork is settled. As long as the ex is good and truly out of the picture, I'd consider moving past the issue. It really depends on the context

[COMMODOREII]

I would break up with them. I can not be a party to their indecision. I really do not want to hear excuses or so called reasons. You are either single or not.

[Unbeatable]

jumping into a new relationship after a breakup is sad. they'll bring their toxicity with them. anyone looking for a serious relationship would first fix the part of themselves that hurt the relationship they were just in.

[hahahmm]

If either of us ever indicated that we were looking for serious, I would dump them for not sharing that info on day 1.

[Alyssa11]

Break up. We can pick things up when you’ve brought along the divorce papers and evidence they’ve been blocked/not in your life any more.

[rosemilk]

Impossible. But if this situation were true, it's very hard to hide things from me, and his family who he is still close with so...

[AndrewMG]

Oh there's been time in my dating history where the only criteria have been do they like me/do we get on! lol... Legalities, Technicalities, Lawfullness... bah! lol

[NYCQuestions1976]

It can sometimes take years for the courts to process a contentious separation and divorce (not to mention the cost), so I suppose it would depend on the situation.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'd leave.
Billions of women on this planet. I'm pretty sure I could find one that WASN'T married!

[DWornock]

Just because she is married doesn't imply that she is not a good fuck. However, I would be more cautious about the places that I would fuck her and certainly I would avoid fucking her in her house where her husband might show up unexpectedly.

[TheBigGuy9]

I’d have them hit the road unless it’s an amazing excuse and he has grown from then. Like you have seen a positive change in him. You should be able to tell.
But if he has lied to you out of convenience, get rid of him.

[EmmaMary]

It would be the immediate parting of the ways from the deceitful, dishonest lowlife b******.