What's the worst excuse a new special someone gave you, to get out of your life?

[Diamold]

Someone special told me "we have too much in common and we have a great connection, it's like, you are me, but from the opposite gender, and maybe that's why i can't be with you". For me, that just doesn't make any sense...

You met someone new, you're starting to talk a lot with that person and you both feel an amazing connection and you have a lot in common.
You really feel amazing around each other.
You decide to have sex, and it feels great, you keep talking and you have sex a few more times.
After 3 months of this, that person even tells you that you're the one... that person wants to settle down with you.
The day after that, out of nowhere, that amazing someone just finds the most ridiculous excuse to get out of your life, and that's the end of it, sadly, there is no turning back.

[ObscuredBeyond]

She posts something kinky on Instagram. I have no idea why. I state the obvious: "That looks like a hostage situation." I say nothing else, and she throws a fit on Instagram, calling me a meanie who "doesn't like anime" and "doesn't get it." And for sending "negative energy vibes" to her page. I literally did none of that. So I ask her why she's projecting madness on me, and why she's gotta be so defensive. Why it's so impossible to accept that I simply don't know what's going on.

She sticks to her guns and blocks me a minute later. Her and I were in touch over our shared interests in Sims for 2 years. But in an instant of talking batshit and refusing to be proven wrong, she threw it all away.

She thinks me not hitting like on literally her every post makes me a hater? It just means I'm not a thirsty simp. Moreover, she never once liked a post on my wall unless it revolved around making her look good. I never once accused her of being a hater of my stuff due to that! Absolute madness.

Yeah, the image she shared did look like a kinky manga clip of a young girl being kidnapped and gagged, and that gave me serious WTF vibes. But her freakout has me thinking she may be into something a lot worse, and was afraid I'd get her swatted or something. Only logical explanation I can think of for her behaving so erratically. She's from Indonesia, and I have no idea if that has anything to do with it. So if she is caught with CP, what do they do in Indonesia? Feed them to tigers? I have no idea. But it's probably a blessing in disguise she's gone. Of course, now I have to delete my remake of her North Pole house I made in 2017. I remade it as a Santa house that got taken over by Krampus.

But I can't let myself be associated with her in any way now. Just in case my suspicion is true, and she is the new Epstein somehow. If that's true, she had a far better cover, as an innocent kawaii decorator. But best I not take any chances.

[Whatever2929292]

People who act like that make you out to be the negative one LOL

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Her mother didn't want her to date me cause I was white
and her mother was prejudiced against her own race
and her step-dad was black but was a very nice guy
but her mother was an alcoholic and can't see why
people become prejudice against their own race
just cause her husband was white and was mean
to her, not all people are the same I date any girl
from any race

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For MHO :)

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Not an excuse, more a weird sentiment.

That he wanted the "option" of having kids. As a man growing older and nearly in his 30s, but also refusing to date younger women and only going after older ones.

Dude needed to grow a uterus, cause he also didn't want to adopt, and ran outta time to have a baby healthily the natural way.

He also started dating me and kept dating me knowing I was childfree and never wanted children. So I don't know where he thought that was going but he really ought to grow a uterus if he "wants the option of having children".

Leaving him was the best decision.

Now I have a childfree, sterile partner and I'm permanently sterile myself. So I get all the raw sex and creampies I want with none of the pregnancy scares and an added bonus of eliminating where many uterine cancers occur (the tubes).

[Alyssa11]

I triggered them and they can’t forgive me. Just because I set my boundaries and called them out for disrespecting me. I literally got blocked for doing that. Unbelievable. I’m beyond triggered by what they’d done to me and because I finally stood up for myself, I’m suddenly the triggering one... oh well.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Couldn't say, cuz first bullshit excuse and I'm out... Straight up truth, if someone don't have respect enough for that, I ain't got time for that..

[OlderAndWiser]

Some ex showed back up in her life and got her juices flowing.

[Sakiyamoon]

Lol the classic. It's not you, It's me. He came back though lol the reason was he was a fuck boy and felt like he couldn't sleep with just one women his whole life because that would be unfair to other women. Needless to say he left tried to screw his friend's girl and couldn't even get it up. I don't know why that happened but he called me that night , apologized and declared his love for me. 🤦‍♀️

[Diamold]

Sounds like he doesn't actually know what he wants, so he goes for everything at the same time 😅🤦‍♂️

[MCheetah]

Was never given a bad excuse before, in this situation. Every breakup I've had, the women honestly told me why. And it was usually along the lines of "not tall enough/sex not good enough/I found someone hotter than you."

[menina]

That sucks. I agree, that excuse doesn't make sense at all. Fortunately that has never happened to me. It would be much easier if they just said that they don't want to be with you.

[electromagnetic]

The worse excuse?
The fact that I didn’t even get one. Just left fo move halfway across the globe on my own.

[red324]

They always seem to somehow be too busy to date all of a sudden. It's like well why are you trying to date in the first place? Girls on dating sites are famous for this. I tell them to get the fuck off the site then.

[Massageman]

There were no "excuses". The short term relationships we both realized it just wasn't working, and really it was pretty much like that for the longer relationships as well.

[TsundereMatrix]

“You’re too dramatic” he says after I confront him about having a secret girlfriend.

[Ninjazzed]

Basically he said that his life at home was a “shitshow” and I found all of that to be bullshit when I asked his family.

[Flower7]

"I'll be too busy to date because I have a lot of bowling nights coming up."

[karaspara]

The old classic it's not you it's me

[PrincessAaliyah98]

Can’t do this anymore I’m getting married!

[On_cloud_wine]

“You drink too much”