Cheating or borderline?

[AngelsAway]

My ex has a girlfriend but has said he regrets our breakup and that he wishes he never overreacted. What does that mean and is he cheating?

[loves2learn]

@sandoncheeks the lovely Piperhiggins shoes her true colors here…

[sandoncheeks]

What is the scenario?

[AngelsAway]

We broke up in 2019 but since December 2020 has been talking to me and getting flirty/ relationship like with mw

[sandoncheeks]

Why did you two break up?

[AngelsAway]

We broke up during a pregnancy while times were tough we were arguing and I said that he wasn't coming over for Thanksgiving and he broke up and is admitting he overreacted

[sandoncheeks]

What was the argument about?

[AngelsAway]

Just I was hormonal and he was always trying to say I was cheating when I was testing for a job

[sandoncheeks]

Have you ever cheated on him or has he ever cheated on you before?

[AngelsAway]

Nope never. He never cheated on me. Never even thought about talking to another girl and I've never cheated on him. Would never

[sandoncheeks]

When was the last time you two spoke?

[AngelsAway]

This past Sunday

[sandoncheeks]

Was it on good terms or was there bitterness still? I hope you don't mind me asking so much I want to help.

[AngelsAway]

We both were kinda bitter. Then it was worse when the baby was born. And I dont mind. I can give you my snap if you'd like

[sandoncheeks]

I don't use snap but feel free to send me a message ❤️. And that is unfortunate how long have you two been together?

[AngelsAway]

It won't allow me to send messages but we would been together 5 year this past march

[sandoncheeks]

I forgot we are only lvl 1! Oh that is a bit of a long time. How are you feeling now after giving birth do you feel it affects you in being a mother emotionally?

[AngelsAway]

I love him with my heart. I forgave him and we both understand mistakes we made. It doesn't affect me being a mother but I definitely think about him every day

[sandoncheeks]

Aw do you mind if I check up on how you are feeling in the future I hate seeing good people sad 😞

[AngelsAway]

I dont mind at all. Like domt get me wrong I'm not perfect I've made mistakes. I said soem things but by all means I never said anything thay was ridiculous.

[sandoncheeks]

What did you say that was not the best of words to him?

[AngelsAway]

When he kept telling me I was cheating , mind you I was like 4 to 5 month pregnant, I was trlling him he needs to stfu with it and that it's bullshit for him to keep acting like this. Then when I was testing for my job our cellphones had to be turned off and he was once again saying I was cheating. Etc yea I should have been more calmer I admit that

[sandoncheeks]

I see. Did you tell him phones needed to be turned off? Does he get jealous often?

[AngelsAway]

No I didn't know until test started. And he got jealous lots of times

[sandoncheeks]

Is that something that bothers you like a red flag?

[AngelsAway]

I never paid no mind to it once in a while it would be crazy but at the same time I could understand. My previous workplace I used to wear white scrubs and unfortunately they were see through. And I wear VS clothing underneath so I can understand but he knew I wouldn't chest he just didn't like the way guys would look and all

[Piperhiggins]

I’m sure he cheated on you because your fat

[AngelsAway]

He never cheated on me and also I'm not fat. I have a little baby belly but definitely not fat. Be kind

[Piperhiggins]

U mean u have a round belly?

[Pterodon]

Why do you care?

[AngelsAway]

Becuase I want to work it out with him. We have child together

[Pterodon]

Tough. The only reason he’s sniffing around is because his relationship is souring and he’s looking for a backup plan. You will not reconcile and ride off into the sunset together and live happily ever after nor will you be friends even if he suggests or agrees to it. Leopards don’t change their spots and people don’t change either. Once you start breaking up for any reason it’s the beginning of the end. This is over permanently and completely so get court ordered child support and move on