But the truth was I was going through some very difficult circumstances in my personal life and I was taking out on her. I needed to figure out shit on my own. I wanted to break up with her but I couldn’t get myself to do it. She was the first girl I met who I thought truly understood me. Getting serious with her did cross my mind but the timing was all f*cked up.
Anyway my behavior (I acted disconnected) at the time eventually drove her into dumping me. When the day came I was honest about where I stood and accepted her decision. She said “don’t be a stranger” and we seemingly left with mutual respect. I wanted her to by happy and if it was without me I could accept that. I also admit I was flirty with other girls while we dated (wrong I admit) but I never made physical/emotional contact with anyone despite having several opportunities to.
We still had to communicate after the split but she treated me like scum of the earth afterwards. This culminated after I found out I have a HPV infection 3 weeks after we split. After two weeks of debating I decided to tell her about it out of concern for her health (in hindsight a huge mistake). Her response was literally “Oh thank God I’m vaccinated as for you…your an ex so tough luck”. It was the nastiest insult I have ever taken from a woman. I was devastated for a very long time. (cont)
This is what happened. Now obviously there is nothing I can do. But this burned very bad. I’ve had other women burn me before but I didn’t think a person like that was capable of that.
I guess I can say “well I’m better off without that whore”. But seriously makes me not trust women at all.
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