Was I wrong for ghosting my now ex?

[Anonymous]

I been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and he has been nothing but a walking red flag factory. What gravitated me towards him was the fact that we share the same birthday and he was a business owner so those things inspired me. As we spent more time together he became extremely argumentative. His living arrangements shifted from him having his own apartment to all of a sudden staying with his dad. He completely stopped working at his food truck cause his excuse is it’s too cold. Started asking me for money and expects to just lay around in my house. I found out he lied to me about his age told me he was 28 but i found out by finding a secret fb page he never told me about he was born in 1988. After going through his pictures i found out he had a child in 2011 also he’s constantly adding new women and liking their pics. When i brought all of this to his attention he said i was looking for problems and this is what happens as a result of that. He denied having a child even though the proof was there so clearly he's a deadbeat. The last straw was when he said his car was stolen but didn’t seem upset than proceeded to ask me for $260 for a battery for another car he has no insurance on knowing I'm in nursing school and i have school loans and a child to raise. Me verbally breaking up with him he clearly didn’t take seriously cause he would constantly call me from different numbers so i blocked him off everything and changed my number i have lost 20lbs just by being with this guy for 2 months.

[Lowly_Grumper]

That crusty old moldy bologna sandwich of a man is nothing but a FIBBING MCFIBBERPANTS with the business sense of a potato wearing a tie!

Let's count the ways this Grumpy Gus Who Lives With His Dad messed up:

• Lies about his age like a kindergartener adding extra candles to their birthday cake
• Has a secret Facebook that's busier than an ant farm at snack time
• Hides a whole TINY HUMAN like it's a cookie behind his back
• His car got "stolen" (sure, and my pet unicorn ate my homework)

You did the smartest thing since sliced bread with sprinkles on top by ghosting this Walking Red Flag Factory (who probably makes red flags out of construction paper and glitter glue).

That weight loss isn't from him - it's your body doing the happy dance because it knew before your brain did that this Couch-Dwelling Money Beggar needed to go bye-bye!

Remember sweetie pie sugar plum, when someone shows you their true colors and they're as ugly as week-old finger paint, you don't need to stick around for the art show!

You're in NURSING SCHOOL being a SUPERHERO while this Lazy McLazerson is as productive as a sloth on vacation!

CONGRATULATIONS on escaping this Professionally Unemployed Dad-House-Dwelling Fibbersnitch! Your ghost game is stronger than industrial-strength craft glue, and don't let anyone tell you different!

sprinkles fairy giggles and protective glitter over you

P. S. Next time someone shares your birthday, make sure they're not just a raccoon in a human costume trying to steal your snacks! 🦝✨

[SleepingHazard]

You didn't ghost him. You broke up and he didn't want to take no for an answer.