I’ve been going through a very rough patch in my life bc I quit my job and now my car is messing up too. Almost used my savings and he just doesn’t really want to do things with me as much. He ghosted me this weekend after I said my car was having problems and i tried to call and text. He did texted me later on but i don’t feel like replying back to him anymore.
I feel like im trying to make us work when he isn’t doing his part. I also suspect maybe he has someone else now or something going on bc who ignores someone that you claim that you love? I feel like he used me for what I had bc now I don’t have a car or job, he’s been a lot less attentive. He just extremely distant again and I have too much going on to be trying to deal with him when my life isn’t aligned how i wanted it to be.
Last time he tried to ghost me, I explained how I felt but he’s doing this again so I feel as if my feelings don’t matter much to him as much as he says sorry he was feeling really down bad & I left it alone also We don’t argue or anything. If he isn’t really feeling me anymore, i wish he could tell me that or if he found a better connection in some other chick or whatever but he’s been not really initiating much dates and ducking to see me on weekends. I just feel so depressed bc of what happened to my job and he isn’t there for me as much as he should be and pushing me away and just overall switching up on me.
Telling me how much he loves me and blah I don’t get it or understand what I did to deserve that and I don’t know why but I think maybe there’s another girl or something that comes over when I’m not there bc he said his sister said I can’t spend the night anymore and he made a lame excuse. Today was day 3 of him ignoring me and I just ended it. He did end up texting me back a few hours ago playing dumb like he didn’t ghost me and wants me to explain why I feel (x, y emotions) but his inconsistency has turned me off to the point that I don’t even wanna see him anymore..
I feel like im trying to make us work when he isn’t doing his part. I also suspect maybe he has someone else now or something going on bc who ignores someone that you claim that you love? I feel like he used me for what I had bc now I don’t have a car or job, he’s been a lot less attentive. He just extremely distant again and I have too much going on to be trying to deal with him when my life isn’t aligned how i wanted it to be.
Last time he tried to ghost me, I explained how I felt but he’s doing this again so I feel as if my feelings don’t matter much to him as much as he says sorry he was feeling really down bad & I left it alone also We don’t argue or anything. If he isn’t really feeling me anymore, i wish he could tell me that or if he found a better connection in some other chick or whatever but he’s been not really initiating much dates and ducking to see me on weekends. I just feel so depressed bc of what happened to my job and he isn’t there for me as much as he should be and pushing me away and just overall switching up on me.
Telling me how much he loves me and blah I don’t get it or understand what I did to deserve that and I don’t know why but I think maybe there’s another girl or something that comes over when I’m not there bc he said his sister said I can’t spend the night anymore and he made a lame excuse. Today was day 3 of him ignoring me and I just ended it. He did end up texting me back a few hours ago playing dumb like he didn’t ghost me and wants me to explain why I feel (x, y emotions) but his inconsistency has turned me off to the point that I don’t even wanna see him anymore..
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Yes. And don’t look back. Move on.
Okay thank you! I’ve been trying hard to find a job and stuff and be positive but I just feel even worse because I’m having a rough patch in life and I wanted him to be there for me and support me. I was there for him when he had no job and I was paying for our dates and also I drive us around everywhere since he can’t take me out but if he can’t support me now that I’m at my lowest then he doesn’t deserve me at my highest
Ghost him permanently.
I broke it off bc he ignore me for 3 days saying he was “sick”. Do you think he would come back in the future and explain why he acted that way? I was very compassionate and caring towards him and he said I’m the only girl that showed him that kind of love… unfortunately I usually end up breaking it off wit guys and at first they act like they don’t care (which he did when we broke up) and then when I forget about him, they come crawling back and apologizing…
He might, but don't wait around for him.
you sound like the type of woman this happens to.
What does this mean? Am I too overly nice and compassionate… I don’t get ghosted a lot actually but he’s usually very honest