My ex cheated and held a pretty mild grudge?

[yotaman99]

She did a lot of grimey things behind my back and too me. Ladies what would you do to your boyfriend. If he upset you enough

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Well I’m not trying to upset anyone.

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I’m the same with my job so I know what you’re saying.

[SueShe]

First thing, I would tell him to put on a decent top and not to walk around half naked. I have always failed to understand why you guys need to show your chest and not wear something to cover that body part. It is not something we want to see.

Well, as for your question, I am in the very lucky and fortunate position that I don't date and I don't have those issues. It is exactly because of those cheaters that I don't date, never have and never will.

What I would do? I would leave without a single word, as simple as that. No drama but I would make sure that all his friends, colleagues, coworkers and future girlfriends are aware of what kind of person he is.

[yotaman99]

Sorry I didn’t mean to offend you

[SueShe]

It is not an offense, it is simply a remark. Girls by the way do the same being lightly dressed on their profile picture.

[yotaman99]

I’m trying to upset anyone so you don’t date?

[SueShe]

I don't date because I have no interest in dating. My education has top priority and that leaves no space for dating and/or fornication.

[Abbycado]

@sushe so if not half naked then fully naked? Right?

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Are you a psychic? Can you read minds?

[Abbycado]

Logic. Because what else would a logical person do?

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Hmmm! 🤔

[kitkatto]

I would leave him, try to live my best life, do the things that he didn’t want me to do (like moving to a different city, going out drinking, etc), and I’ll block him everywhere. I’ll act like he never even existed. No revenge needed when he’s already lost the person that would’ve given him everything.

[yotaman99]

I mean that makes sense but I tried to stay with her

[kitkatto]

To each their own. I also tried to stay with mine but he cheated again 🤷🏻‍♀️

[yotaman99]

Yeah I know how it is trust me. I tried and it was fun

[sage2021]

Wait. Your ex cheated and YOU are holding a pretty mild grudge?
I'm sitting here wondering why you aren't more upset with her because she has been doing a lot of things behind your back besides cheating on you.
Your question isn't easily answerable.
I would like it if you were willing to give us more information please.
Update your question.

[yotaman99]

How do I update I am willing to give more info

[yotaman99]

And no I’m not upset at all

[sage2021]

You've already updated it twice. Go and look under your question.

[yotaman99]

How do I change that?

[yotaman99]

I don’t even know how I did that

[sage2021]

You can only update a question twice which you have already done.

[yotaman99]

Should I make a new post?

[sage2021]

Yeah I would.

[sage2021]

But the moderators won't let you ask the same question twice so change it up a little bit

[yotaman99]

Ok give me a sec

[yotaman99]

I tried it won’t let me because of the post earlier can you dm?

[thegreenyogi]

I wouldn't cheat on him just because he upset me or we had a disagreement.

[yotaman99]

Really well she did way more than that but honestly I learned what I like.

[thegreenyogi]

Good for you.

[yotaman99]

It wasn’t a fun experience

[thegreenyogi]

I'm sure it wasn't. I'm sorry you went through this experience.

[yotaman99]

Why are you sorry

[thegreenyogi]

I'm just a kind person.

[yotaman99]

I appreciate that I am too

[yotaman99]

Well I try to be.

[thegreenyogi]

That's good to know.

[Booboolove69]

In what way did you upset her?

[yotaman99]

Honestly I really think it was spite because I told her she needed a job

[Booboolove69]

“ NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED” ‼️‼️‼️‼️

[yotaman99]

Yeah I don’t really know what the cause was

[Booboolove69]

Honestly, fuck her dumb ass !!! She is not worth it, obviously!
It sounds like ur one of the good guys that got dumped by a hoe !!!
Please move on !!
I know it’s hard to get a lover out of the mind when dumped and don’t know why !
I’m going through it now myself…
I get where ur coming from!
You’ll find a better woman but not until u get this hoe out of ur mind permanently. No woman ever wants to find out that the man she just met is thinking about the other woman he broke up with.
Hang in there !

[yotaman99]

Oh I did but I learned a lot of what I liked because of her

[Abbycado]

Right, so what is the question?

[yotaman99]

I’m just wondering how far would you go to mess your ex up?

[Abbycado]

I wouldn’t. I’d leave an ex in the past and move on.

[yotaman99]

Seriously so why did my ex do what she did.

[Abbycado]

You don’t say what she did. Why do you let what she does affect you? She’s an ex. Ignore her.

[yotaman99]

I was just asking if anyone would do what she did I’ll tell you if you what she did if you want to know it doesn’t affect me negatively I like it.

[yotaman99]

Can you dm?