My ex still hasn't forgiven me for cheating on him a year ago?

[Anonymous]

We are juniors now and sophomore year I cheated on him with his frenemy. he found out. This year we have us history together and the teacher put me and my ex at the same table but he won't look at me that much or smile or talk to me. He kind of ignores me and pretends I'm not there. He only talks to me when he has to.
He has dated and been in relationships with other girls after he broke up with me. And It's been a year why hasn't he gotten over it?

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He's kind of rude to me too. Like once I was talking to his friend and he cut me off and said something else and I didn't get the chance to finish what I was saying. Wtf

[AnayaWilliams]

You betrayed him and he did nothing wrong to you. It is hard to forgive a cheater it isn't easy trust me. My ex cheated on me and I could never trust him ever again. I broke it off with him and since then its been 7 months since he and I have talked. I guess he doesn't see you as you used to be. He probably is just ignoring you and doesn't want anything to do with you. My ex and I don't talk to each other we don't say a word I just think its weird to be friends with an ex. And then how could you forgive them for cheating on you or leading you on. My ex led me on and broke up with me out of the blue. I have forgiven him but it took a lot of time. I could never take back a cheater or even forgive them I mean I could but it would take a lot of time. You hurt him, and now he has lost trust for you, you don't see it though. He has moved on we all do he doesn't want anything to do with you, I'm sorry to say that but that's just how it goes. My e and I don't want anything to do with each other at all, no words no anything.

[smokahontas]

Because you cheated on him. Do you know how bad that feels to be cheated on? It's a disgusting feeling. I wouldn't blame him for ignoring you for a year and the fact that it is hard for him to look you in the eyes means that you were really special to him. He probably won't ever get over it especially right now because you guys are still in high school.

[Automaticloveletter]

Well let me put it this way would you want to talk to him if he cheated on you and broke your heart, NO so don't expect him to be like OH MY GOD how are you. Cheating is the worse thing you could do in a relationship!

[SomethingWicked]

Because you hurt him and he doesn't owe you anything, especially friendship after you cheated.

[Asker]

He's dated other girls and been In relationships I thought he moved on already.

[SomethingWicked]

So? That still doesn't mean he wants to forgive you or be your friend.

[the_boss]

I believe you've possibly ended any form of possible relationship with him, for now and a few months. There's few people that will stay with their other half after finding out they cheated. Think about weak relationships, there's no way. Now for his attitude, no offense and please don't take this the wrong way but you did cheat. With a person he really hated. So the best way I can describe what he's thinking is, when he sees you, he thinks of him, and then he thinks of the idea of you two being together. Lastly, he's in a stage where he's building to an adult, and you definitely stepped in to introduce one of the worst relationship breakers. I would recommend treating him with respect because you already disrespected him heavily, keeping your distance and giving him space, and finally you can't control how he's going to act, I mean let's look at the truth, you didn't when you cheated on him. Like I said, take no offense.

[DarkEmblem]

If you had cheated on me, I wouldn't be interested in talking to you at all either, no matter how long ago. You can't change the past, but you can't change memories either.

If one has hurt me in my life, I wouldn't be interested in talking to him/her for quite a damn long time.

[Theguyoverthere]

That's his choice not to forgive. It sucks that he has to see you everyday. He has to face a reminder of what you did to him. I feel bad for people in those situations as I have been cheated on myself. There's no excuse for what you did.

[Anonymous]

My ex cheated on me. Like she would sext the guy in bed next to me. She would be out late, she did this for some time before I looked on her phone and saw what she was saying.

My trust in her personally is shattered. I would never trust her to be out or "just texting" someone again. What she did was vicious and uncalled for...

How would you like to be cheated on? And why would you want to talk to your ex?

[Tractorbeam]

He'll be about 1/2 as pissed off about in 7 years time as he was the day you did it. He can never really forget, and it never really goes away.
That's just the way it is with cheating. That's why it's such a shit of a thing to do.

[TadCurious]

What he thinks about you has changed. I'm not sure why you think he should go out of his way to be friendly with you.

[Vesuvius87]

I can't blame him. If a guy cheated on me, I wouldn't want to associate with him either.

[Sithis]

Foolish girl. Don't expect people to treat you like a decent human being after you do the opposite.

[serria054]

Be thankful he's ignoreing you and not ploting something horrific... Or maybe...

[wolflover17]

we are all human and we all make mistakes that we come to regret but you will have to live with the consequences of your actions

[StevenMK249MadMan]

I've been cheated on before it took me almost 2years to be the same. he still loves you because he is still with you just ask yourself how long would it take you if it heppend to you.

[The_Fugly_Truth]

You were unfaithful, he's decided he still doesn't want to forgive you - deal with it.

[douride2]

You cheated on him. Why should he ever forgive you?

[Special11]

I dont blame him, what you did was far worse than being rude.

[elman123]

BECAUSE YOU HURT HIM... DONT YOU GET IT? ... hate when someone cheats...

[Vesuvius87]

The asker is funny. She thinks a year is enough for someone to not only get over getting cheated on but actually become the unremorseful cheater's friend (because the way she's talking, she doesn't even seem one bit remorseful at all).

[Anonymous]

he really beleived in the realtionand u r wrong he has get over but he has a hatred for u now so

[Asker]

It's been a year though I can't believe he's still stuck on the past. I don't think he hates me i think he just doesn't like me.

[Opinion Owner]

ok then he muat be neutral towards you right?

[Opinion Owner]

must*

[Anonymous]

To be fair, you did betray him. He is not doing anything wrong, and you just have to deal with it.

[kangy]

I wouldn't too
he's hurt badly

[Asker]

He's dated other girls and been In relationships I thought he would've forgiven me by now.

[kangy]

Bad impression or experience left a deeper impression on one.

[Anonymous]

What do you expect? "YOU cheated on HIM"