He cheated on me multiple times but I forgiven him. He never left me but continued cheating. I got fed up and cheated back. He left me. Why?

[Anonymous]

No amount of my begging, crying is making him stay. He's not forgiving me. He is even planning to attack me. Why? What should I do?

[strawberrybaby3]

Because women are usually conditioned to give chances and stick by a man no matter what. A man prioritizes himself and loves himself first therefor won’t put up with being disrespected. That’s why we constantly forgive their bad behaviour and let them walk all over us but the second we do something that offends them or do something wrong after ALL they’ve done to us, they can’t take it , and leave.

[Asker]

Sad reality

[Adaeva]

That is because men don't cheat, only women can cheat. That is because no man can convince you that a child he sired by another woman is your baby, but women do it all the time and that is the definition of cheating. Anything else is just sex and not much different than a hug. Therefore, since having sex with another man could result in him raising a baby sired by another man, he would not tolerate your having sex with another man.

[iron_ninjs]

Just leave him. His behavior isn't going to change, and he's just going to hurt you more.
The faster you get away from him, and start living your life, the better.
Who knows, maybe once he sees you're not interzin him anymore, he'll want to come back. But I advise you not to take him back.

[OlderAndWiser]

"He is even planning to attack me." That comment very obviously needs some explanation.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

He got a taste of his own medicine, so on that score, GOOD for you. You got even, don't beg this waste of space to come back, why? For more of the same s**t? Get some therapy, work on YOU and move on. God bless.

[BoopBoopBeep]

He saw you as a sucker. There's no respect there. There's no surprise how this played out. If you think he's going to attack you go to the cops. Next time have some self-respect. You deserve better.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not sure what you could do besides take time to heal, reflect on what happened, and find someone new.

The unfortunate reality is that people who cheat tend not to be the most charitable and emotionally stable people.

[Paris13]

What Was Good for his Goose Was not Great for his own Gander. Let him GO!!! xxoo

[provokeesmokee]

God damn, y'all fucked up as shit.

Both of you suck.

Don't take a cheater back and cheating is never the answer. Yikes.

[boggboss]

Learn to have some self respect and stop getting with guys that clearly don't care about u

[Anonymous]

You should not have become a slut only because he cheated on you.

But I think that you can easily get him back within some months: he'll see that the other girls are not so patient

[Anonymous]

She cheated on me first and cheated on me multiple times and was emotionally abusive and mentally abusive

[Asker]

Not she, it's he

[Opinion Owner]

well mine cheated on me and abused the shit out of me

[Jmmmfi4]

FUCK THAT CLOWN