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My boyfriend cheated on me before, I’m still with him but I keep punishing him for it?

My boyfriend (27) and me (22) cheated on me in the past, well I don’t even know if he was cheating technically as we were dating we weren’t actually official. BUT when we were official he was texting other women which I found out and I was heartbroken about. We were going through a rough patch but it’s no excuse. I have no proof he slept with any of them but still texting other females is bad. He’s got a really bad rep too in terms of being a player, and to b honest I’m suprised we’ve lasted over a year because most of his relationships crumble. I’m a strong believer people do not change but I can’t judge someone from the past if there relationships when he said he didn’t love them anyway.

anywho we live together and some times he does work until the AM as he does traffic managment which is 6pm till 6am with his friend then ends up sleeping at his friends, he does FaceTime me 95% of the time when he’s there but the day he dosent I get really wound up and accuse him of cheating with no proof, I know that’s messed up though he shouldn’t have to FaceTime me his wear abouts everyday that’s not really what people do and it’s a bit overbearing. But everytime he’s at his friends or one time he dosent FaceTime me I get really really wound up and we argue and he says I think negative of him. Which is true, I do. I love him so much and I have no proof but I feel as though I’m punishing him and I don’t know what to do. We haven’t had sex in 3 weeks also which tops it off but again, we had a rough 2 weeks where he was living at his moms since he was annoying me. I don’t know what to do because I don’t know how to get over this fear and trust issues. I also get random messages from fake accounts sometimes saying ‘you’re boyfriends a slag’ from his ex’s and it makes it WORSE.

My boyfriend cheated on me before, I’m still with him but I keep punishing him for it?
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