Did I Hit a Nerve with My Ex?

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********I ACCIDENTALLY (NO LIE!!!) I Sent This Particular Emoticon to Him. Wondering if God Intervened in This because Every Time it Seems There is a Special Occasion or Holiday or Something in Which I used to Send him Gift Cards and Boxes of Goodies When We were a Couple, He lurks around me. We are On and Off Contact. (He used to make me Lovely things and Send Things Too, Such as The ring I Still Have from Him) He did say He still Loves me. At any Rate, He saw the Dollar Emoticon and Now is Not REPLYING. Did I hit a NERVE? Next Wed Would be Our 4th Anniversary. lol Any Thoughts? xxoo

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

I'd say it depends on what type of communication you both have. Does he usually take you seriously when you use emojis? Do you use them often? Even then though, he may not take every single one seriously.

I don't ever take emojis seriously, but that's just me. I think they're a playful way to comminate, but at the same time, a lot of people use them to joke around too. I'd ask yourself how seriously he takes you when you use them. If he does take it seriously, just tell him you were using it in a playful jokingly way.

I don't think you have anything to worry about. I can't speak for all guys, but I know when a girl texts me emoji's, I know she's just being flirty or playfully joking,

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

How have emojis like that been used in other contexts? If the dude told you that he still loved you, and you responded with that emoji, the nature of your past relationship would inform the way he interprets that.

Personally, I have a thick skin, so I would probably laugh, but depending ENTIRELY on our previous communications, that could easily kill any serious romantic intent I had for you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You sent the gold digger emoji?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you want him to truly be your ex, you should not be in contact with him. That just prolongs the trauma and the agony of the break up.

If you don't really want him to be your ex, you should be honest with yourself about what you truly want.

AviatorTom · Answer

If I were your ex, and I received this emoticon, I would think you were offering sexual services... if I pay for them. Crude!

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t know. Things like this are complicated

Sixgunsound · Answer

Good riddance to bad rubbish. If he's not talking you should stop as well.

boggboss · Answer

How are u talking about hime being tour ex then referencing anniversary what do u actually want

exitseven · Answer

Maybe this is a good opportunity to finally put this relationship in the rear view.

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s hard to know because I could be taken in many ways, maybe he thinks that you want money from him?

Massageman · Answer

Apologize. Maybe tell him it supposed to go to your banker?

CubaPirate · Answer

Don't let it bother you he's just your ex after all

Gent207-2 · Answer

I'm dead confused Have you talked to him?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i accidentally do things on purpose too lol

Pterodon · Answer

You did hit a nerve but in what way is unknown

In_Trance · Answer

Stop interacting with your ex

msc545 · Answer

Stop communicating with him.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Probably did

Anonymous · Answer

I think so

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