Did I Hit a Nerve with My Ex?

[Paris13]

********I ACCIDENTALLY (NO LIE!!!) I Sent This Particular Emoticon to Him. Wondering if God Intervened in This because Every Time it Seems There is a Special Occasion or Holiday or Something in Which I used to Send him Gift Cards and Boxes of Goodies When We were a Couple, He lurks around me. We are On and Off Contact. (He used to make me Lovely things and Send Things Too, Such as The ring I Still Have from Him) He did say He still Loves me. At any Rate, He saw the Dollar Emoticon and Now is Not REPLYING. Did I hit a NERVE? Next Wed Would be Our 4th Anniversary. lol Any Thoughts? xxoo

[Leapfrog00]

I'd say it depends on what type of communication you both have. Does he usually take you seriously when you use emojis? Do you use them often? Even then though, he may not take every single one seriously.

I don't ever take emojis seriously, but that's just me. I think they're a playful way to comminate, but at the same time, a lot of people use them to joke around too. I'd ask yourself how seriously he takes you when you use them. If he does take it seriously, just tell him you were using it in a playful jokingly way.

I don't think you have anything to worry about. I can't speak for all guys, but I know when a girl texts me emoji's, I know she's just being flirty or playfully joking,

[Paris13]

We Used to Send PLENTY AND each One had a Meaning. Believe Me, I think He is Offended being Our 4th Year Would be Coming up Next Week. xx

[Paris13]

**I am Thinking He may Think I am On to Him. xx

[Leapfrog00]

Maybe tell him that you were joking with him, or you could say, you sent it by mistake. You said it was an accident, right? Honesty is important. I don't see any reason why he wouldn't believe you, unless he has his own insecurities.

These things happen. My friends and I were talking the other day about how people only communicate over devices, and it causes so many relationship problems. I'd fix this in person. Sending more texts to try to fix it, he can't see your facial expressions in a text, so he's not going to be able to see your honesty. He would only be able to take your word for it.

Us as humans tend to overreact. Our minds convince us of the worst outcomes. If my girlfriend sent me an emoji like that, I'd take it as a joke, but that's just me.

[Paris13]

I sent him this "By Accident" Reply to this after 3 days in realizing I had sent it. lolxx

[FilmGuy93]

How have emojis like that been used in other contexts? If the dude told you that he still loved you, and you responded with that emoji, the nature of your past relationship would inform the way he interprets that.

Personally, I have a thick skin, so I would probably laugh, but depending ENTIRELY on our previous communications, that could easily kill any serious romantic intent I had for you.

[Paris13]

lol!!! Sure. xx

[Paris13]

This EMOTICON was THERE BEFOREEEE HE TOLD ME AGAIN. lolxx

[FilmGuy93]

If he sent it after you sent the emoticon, I doubt he was offended by it?

[Paris13]

He may have Looked at IT Wayy after the "I still love you." lol!!! Long story but You as a Man, Have HIM PEGGED. xxoo

[Anonymous]

You sent the gold digger emoji?

[Paris13]

lol!!! I DID? xx

[Paris13]

Ms. Pink, I THINK----He may Think I Think of Him as This Himself as I was always Sending gifts. lol!!! xxoo

[OlderAndWiser]

If you want him to truly be your ex, you should not be in contact with him. That just prolongs the trauma and the agony of the break up.

If you don't really want him to be your ex, you should be honest with yourself about what you truly want.

[Paris13]

I know, Sir. Talking in Particular this Emoticon though Here. lolxx

[AviatorTom]

If I were your ex, and I received this emoticon, I would think you were offering sexual services... if I pay for them. Crude!

[Paris13]

lol!!! Nahhh, He'd NEVER THINK THAT!!!

[AviatorTom]

@Paris13 Tongue out... dollar signs... a guy might think the two go together. 😉😎

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Things like this are complicated

[Paris13]

Hand over the Crown. lolxx

[Summeroflove]

Lol. I guess it’s something when you give something helpful or something. I don't know

[Summeroflove]

Share at least one helpful opinion

[Paris13]

lol!!! @Summeroflove Do you know How may Times I have got ThatCrown? I lost count. lol!!!

[Summeroflove]

LOL. Yeah me too sometimes I don't even notice

[Paris13]

Did I tell You I am a Master and Influencer Here? lol!!! Hi, Guru. xx

[Sixgunsound]

Good riddance to bad rubbish. If he's not talking you should stop as well.

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[boggboss]

How are u talking about hime being tour ex then referencing anniversary what do u actually want

[Paris13]

It would Have Been Our FOURTH. xx

[boggboss]

I know that but why is it somthing you are tracking still surly it wouldn't matter with him being a ex no

[Paris13]

We Still Keep in Touch. I did the BreakUp. I sent him This as I say Because of Our 4th coming up and it maybe Reminds Him of the Gifts I had Sent over these Years. Please, Read this again. xx

[exitseven]

Maybe this is a good opportunity to finally put this relationship in the rear view.

[Paris13]

Ahhh HITCHCOCK. xx

[Likes2drive]

It’s hard to know because I could be taken in many ways, maybe he thinks that you want money from him?

[Paris13]

No, Not me. I was the One who always sent the Gift Cards and Boxes to Him on all of Our Special Occasions ans I think he THINKS I mean That, Big Guy. xx

[Likes2drive]

Yeah, it’s hard to know what he’s thinking

[Paris13]

Or it;s Stinking. lolxx

[Massageman]

Apologize. Maybe tell him it supposed to go to your banker?

[Paris13]

lol!!! Bank's closed. lolxx

[CubaPirate]

Don't let it bother you he's just your ex after all

[Paris13]

I see. xx

[Gent207-2]

I'm dead confused
Have you talked to him?

[Paris13]

On and Off. lolxx

[Sevenpointfive]

i accidentally do things on purpose too lol

[Paris13]

lol Reassuring. xx

[Pterodon]

You did hit a nerve but in what way is unknown

[Paris13]

Read Above my Explanation. lolxx

[In_Trance]

Stop interacting with your ex

[Paris13]

Thanks. xx

[msc545]

Stop communicating with him.

[Paris13]

Thanks. xx

[TrillXHippy]

Probably did

[Paris13]

Probably Right. Sure. xx

[Anonymous]

I think so