How can my cheating ex not take a hint that I am no longer interested or don't want to talk, but instead keeps trying to talk to me anyway?

[CooSimSisbetter]

The cheater ex boyfriend tried to talk to me while I was in the youth club, but i refused and turned around on the chair. Sure enough, my cheater ex boyfriend sat to me and made me even more upset, and I have a resting bitch face. I did trump in front of my ex cheater ex boyfriend. then my mum picked me up and told me about this issue with my ex boyfriend and my mum refused to tell the member of staff. When I just wanted to be left alone, my cheater ex boyfriend kept doing things. He tried to speak to me, but I ignored him. My behavior said it all.

[SueShe]

Obviously he is out there to aggravate you and he is apparently successful.

From your reaction, I can't help but notice that you are attempting to block him out but that you are not doing a good job.

The best solution is to get out of his way and to try to avoid going to those places where he usually goes such as pubs, clubs and the like.

By showing that you totally avoid him, he will get the hint that you are definitely over him and that you shut the door.

What you can do is to get yourself a pepper spray and ostentatiously show it to him next time he tries to molest you. That should keep him at bay.

[crazy8000]

Molest is little to harsh to throw around and are misused by certain kind of people especially amongst females.

The rest is a good advice.

An other approach is to let him talk once and dont say anything. afterwards say to him it doesn't matter. never contact me again or walk up to me. if you do I well get a restraining order.

[SueShe]

@crazy8000 You are correct, I should have used the term of "harassed" rather than molest.

[CooSimSisbetter]

@crazy8000 Since I am from England, Pepper spray is not allowed or is banned . There is no good advice from her

[crazy8000]

@CooSimSisbetter

I think it's the same there I live just like tear gas.

Make people around you aware of what he is doing as a precaution.

[Siren777]

It's best to show these types of men that you don't get upset, you couldn't be bothered by his existence. By showing him you are bothered makes him think you still want him. You could've listened to him and ignored him and moved on. That would've pissed him off that he can't get to you. He has a huge ego, he wanted a reaction out of you and he got it. So that fed his ego more.

[CooSimSisbetter]

Don't get it, kept being quiet and trying to alert him, he wouldn't listen. i trumped in front of him since he wouldn't take a hint.

[crazy8000]

He probably think he could get you back.
Probably by words and what did make you fall the first time.

Some people have problems with that some doesn't want to have to do with them.

I don't know how you got to know he have cheated.

In some situations is it misunderstanding or that someone isn't honest about what did happen just to mess up a relationship.

That is more common than we think.
Just be aware of some cheaters try to misuse that to their advantage.


Still.
If someone doesn't want to have to do with someone we must respect that.

[CooSimSisbetter]

I knew he was about to cheat when my ex boyfriend said this line while we were in a relationship in college (and he said, "Can I have more than one girlfriend") . I caught him cheating. He was acting all weird

[Wise4myage]

He's in denial and has a huge ego.

[Pterodon]

Shame on you for allowing it