I felt really close to a girl at work. We were friends for a few years. I'm married. But things began escalating and blurring lines for me, emotionally. I finally told her I couldn't continue our friendship because I began having feelings for her. I told her she needed to move on without me. She frigging quit her job two weeks later. I was like, holy shit. I feel terrible because I deeply care about her but thought this was best for me, my wife, and her. She's been working in the same job as me for 10 years.