If you were leaving your job and had feelings for a coworker?

[Anonymous]

If you had a partner, but you had feelings for a coworker who also has a partner, would you do anything to say goodbye to them if you left your job? Or would you just leave without making a fuss and never talk to them again?

If you would leave without making a fuss and never speak to them again, why?

I’d say goodbye properly

Never talk to them again

[Anonymous]

Regardless of the circumstances, I would never encourage someone to be so trifling. Whether you missed your chance based off your own reservations or they were already taken when you met, point is they aren’t available. So what point would there be in dropping that bomb of a confession?

[Anonymous]

I would not make a fuss because he didn't make any to me.

[Staximus]

If I wasn't single, I wouldn't be making googly eyes at the girls at work. That's shit bag behavior

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of workplace crushes can be quite the voyage, especially when the anchor of commitment is already dropped. Waving goodbye without stirring the pot might seem like a bland move, but it's probably your safest bet in this scenario. Here's the thing: engaging further with your coworker might spark a fire that could burn bridges not just with them, but also with your partner. It's like playing with firecrackers inside a fireworks factory - fun to think about but disaster in the making. Instead, I'd suggest focusing on what's already filling your heart and building upon the love that's there. Keep the fond memories of your coworker as just that - memories. And hey, who knows? Maybe this closing scene at your job is the universe's nudge for you to invest more in your relationship, discovering new layers and exciting adventures. Remember, the grass isn't greener on the other side; it's greener where you water it. 🌱💖