Ex says we have 0% chance to reconcile because I had sex during our breakup that he initiated?

[Anonymous]

We were broken up and it was all his idea, now apparently i have no chance and have betrayed him,, how? We weren't together

[RearEntryGuy]

I have a suggestion.

Instead of showing yourself wanting to get back, now play to get.

1) no more text or view his social status.

2) completely disappear from his life for at least 2 months.

3) if he tries to make contact, pretend not interested but always tell him you're still looking. And thank him for asking.

4) but if he also stop making contact, then I think you should move on. He really no more interested in you.

[Anonymous]

How do you expect him to want you back after you had sex immediately after breaking up with him? Of course he doesn't want someone who was with another man so fast.

[Asker]

It took one month before I did that

[Honesttguy]

Well he got fuked tried play games got fuked now his jelly and cry like baby.
Ignore the fuker waste of time and energy

[slatyb]

There's a reason you broke up. You are better off without him. Look forward, not backward.

[Anonymous]

Maybe give him more time it took me awhile to get back with my ex after she had sex with someone else

[Asker]

How long did it take

[Opinion Owner]

A few months

[Opinion Owner]

I think what bothered me most was how soon she did it Lake less than a week she was having sex

[Asker]

I'm already waiting 2 months, starting to give up

[Opinion Owner]

Is that how long you guys been broken up for

[Asker]

I had sex after one month so i didn't see the big deal

[Opinion Owner]

And you only did it one time

[Asker]

Yes just one time

[Asker]

Broken up 2 months now and had sex after one month

[Opinion Owner]

That's not bad I would definitely forgive you for that my girlfriend she had become a slut after we broke up

[Asker]

Im like you as well I could forgive but everyone's different

[Opinion Owner]

She had wanted to take a break for the summer and figure out what she wanted and she ended up having sex with five different guys

[Opinion Owner]

I take it he didn't have sex with anyone else

[Asker]

He mustn't have had sex from his reaction, but yep 5 different guys is a lot

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I could hardly believe when she said that

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think I was crazy for taking her back

[Opinion Owner]

Worst part was that took me almost two years of dating her before I was able to get sex

[Asker]

To be honest , i don't think you were crazy because some people deal with emotions differently maybe that was her way to distract her mind, but I would keep my eyes open and not trust again for a good while

[Asker]

Also at least she told the truth about 5 guys, most women would lie

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah definitely appreciated her honesty

[Opinion Owner]

She did cheat on me once after that though

[Asker]

That's a bit different then , cheating is just something I don't think I could get over , maybe if you weren't providing for her emotionally at that time , it's possible to forgive just once, but cheated just for fun, i wouldn't accept it , but it's really up to you

[Opinion Owner]

I guess I forgive her because I feel partly to blame and because she confessed to it right away

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't giving her any sex at the time

[Asker]

Then i would forgive but literally never again

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I told her to ask first next time lol

[Marianna34n]

How did u two break up if u weren't together?

[Marianna34n]

Sorry if i misunderstood anything in advance

[Asker]

Sorry i probably typed to fast , we broke up , we weren't together when i had sex with someone but apparently he doesn't want to fix things because I slept with someone else after we broke up , even though I don't owe him anything anymore

[Marianna34n]

Ohhh okay you have to clear things up with him no stranger can help u with that

[Cringe]

How long have you been broken up when you had sex?

[Asker]

One month

[Cringe]

I see

[Pterodon]

Why do you care?

[lycanthrope3]

his loss, you win