Hi guys. My ex and I both still followed each other on Insta when we separated. I truly don’t want to cut him out of my life as we were good friends. I would like to reconcile in future and really love him as a person/friend & support him.
However, the last time we spoke, we got in a huge fight. We were all good for a few months, but then the last time we spoke he ghosted me bc he was upset. Haven’t spoken again. This hurt a lot. I know it was a mistake & a small argument but it hurts so much. I thought we could be friends but clearly fucked it up & he’s moving on. He hasn’t spoken to me since.
I don’t want to send the message that I hate him. I would really like to be friends in future & all good, as this was a small mistake (we are in same job industry), but I did unfollow him to stop seeing his posts. He was posting a lot. However, he has still been following me. He even looked at one of my stories once. Should I remove him from my list? I don’t want to send a message at ALL that I hate him or never want to speak again. What’s best to do?
However, I DO feel like I’m a little self conscious still when I post, like “will he see this etc?” What will he think. I feel like he still dislikes me & I wish I didn’t care so much when I post stuff. But maybe I should just ignore it completely. What’s the best thing to do? Any advice taken.❤️Thx!
However, the last time we spoke, we got in a huge fight. We were all good for a few months, but then the last time we spoke he ghosted me bc he was upset. Haven’t spoken again. This hurt a lot. I know it was a mistake & a small argument but it hurts so much. I thought we could be friends but clearly fucked it up & he’s moving on. He hasn’t spoken to me since.
I don’t want to send the message that I hate him. I would really like to be friends in future & all good, as this was a small mistake (we are in same job industry), but I did unfollow him to stop seeing his posts. He was posting a lot. However, he has still been following me. He even looked at one of my stories once. Should I remove him from my list? I don’t want to send a message at ALL that I hate him or never want to speak again. What’s best to do?
However, I DO feel like I’m a little self conscious still when I post, like “will he see this etc?” What will he think. I feel like he still dislikes me & I wish I didn’t care so much when I post stuff. But maybe I should just ignore it completely. What’s the best thing to do? Any advice taken.❤️Thx!
