Should I unfollow my ex from instagram?

[Anonymous]

We broke up 2 months ago after a 1 year and 4 months relationship.

Nowadays he ignores all my posts, but he does watch my stories. I sometimes still stalk him, but it has diminished a lot in the last month.
However, he is being incredibly rude to me since the break up. I talked to him and he says he does not even want to say hi when we cross paths, even though we see each other every day (we go to the same university). It really hurts me and no one around me understands why he is behaving this way. I asked him and he said that it is uncomfortable for him, and he does not want any relation with me. This really hurts because he is the one who always hurt me in the relationship, and now that we aren’t together anymore he still found a way to hurt me.

I have been thinking of unfollowing him for a while, but I’m not sure because this will mean I will never hear anything from him again because he does not want to speak at the moment. I also still wait for him to see my instagram story.
Should I unfollow him?

[Vengeful_Ginger]

You should absolutely unfollow him.
The only thing you're doing by continuing to follow him is allow him the opportunity to hurt you more.
I understand what it is like to lose someone you've grown to depend on, but you can't allow that hole to grow larger.
He will not be what you need him to be anymore in any capacity and the sooner you stop letting yourself hope he will the sooner you can find someone to fill the hole he left.

[SjE78]

if neither of you are friends or act like it and have no mutual interests then yes

but after reading that he was the one who always hurt you, I would say unfollow and ignore him just purely because of that

[taylorw]

my rule of thumb; stay away from ex’s if you can! if it was a clean break and you can remain friends or at least follow eachother, cool, but since he is being a jerk i would just unfollow him. not seeing his posts or anything he likes will probably help you better in the long run

[thisbutterfly81]

Lol I unfollowed my ex while we were still together so I’d definitely unfollow him when your not!!

[Agent004]

Loool this is breaking up 101
Of course you do so. 95% break ups end in the bad side so that "we can stay as friends" bs is false.

You should have unfollowed, if you blocked him he wouldn't have care much because he know is part of breaking up.

I think you are just making your healing process longer and forgetting about him harder.
So YES! Delete him asap

[aaronbw]

Its always good to do so. If someone is an ex, they are an ex for a reason and should be cut off (unless you ended in a mutual manner and on q good note).

[fannixo]

Yes you don't want to see him enjoying life or a new relationship it will make you sad🌻

[jokermb]

Well I don't know. Are u trying to get back with him? What was the reason of the break up? Unfollowing him on insta might mean him being even stubborn on the decision he took about not talking to you.

[ultimega]

Unfollow him. There's nothing to gain from keeping him around on your profile

[Sixgun77]

Cutting social media ties with an ex is probably a good idea.

[DiegoO]

Let go. Is hard but for the best.

[Kush-theshrink]

Yes, you should unfollow.

[Sofia87]

I would once it’s over I move on.

[gregorysykes1010]

I would unfollow him on instagram.

[Anonymous]

It is probably best

[danielmeegan]

Yep gone

[RIVERTAY888]

upto you

[Alextoocute]

Yes and block him