Why hasn't my ex deleted/blocked me off social media?

[Anonymous]

About almost 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me , since then we've had like ups and downs but since 2 weeks ago we don't talk to each other anymore. The thing is he still has me on whatsapp, he still has me on snapchat although he almost never views my story and neither do I. He still is Facebook friends with me and he still follows me on Instagram although he unfollowed my friends and he unfollow his other ex. Isn't that weird? Should he be so upset and block me off from everything so he forgets me? Why did he unfollow his other ex suddenly?

[orphan]

guys don't need to eradicate every reminder of their ex like girls do.

it's actually quite normal.. i mean do you guys shake hands and say.. "ok let's remove each other from errything now". life is gradual... and moves slow..

but if u ever need an open ear for some feedback, he's there for ya.

[Asker]

Why did he unfollow his other ex then? I mean he's pretty upset with me? Does he want to know what I'm doing?

[orphan]

to possibly send a signal to you that you're important to him.. and she's not.

[Johnyk]

It just sounds immature to me to block someone, unless there is a real reason. It's like shutting the door on their face like "I'd like to believe that you no longer exist, and I don't want to see you anymore ever". Your ex might not be that much hating you.

[Asker]

Well we don't see each other and we don't talk to each other anymore so what's the point in him seeing my pics Hha

[Johnyk]

But are you sure you will never ever need his help again in your lifetime? By the way, was there any conflict between you both?

[Asker]

At first we were friends , then he got upset with me that my mum wouldn't pay for his dinner. es he hurt me unintentionally twice left me alone in the dark crying and then a week later out of me being upset I told his friend he is lazy and if he won't do anything he'll get no where but I said to his friend I love him though. After he saw the messages he's like I don't want anything to do with you anymore and he just said he can't belive anything I say anymore. I apologised many times ( even though honestly it isn't that bad) I baked him a cake and wrote him a letter how I want to be friends again. He just told me he can't believe anything I say anymore and told me to " move on" after everything I did for him. He ignores my messages now. So we don't tall anymore

[Thames]

Well it has been two months so maybe it doesn't bother him that much. You could always unfollow him if you wanted to.

[spuitkaas]

Maybe he doesn't really feel the need. I never unfollowed my exes as well. Why would I?

[kykyblaze]

Y shld he? If I happens to your ex, I will keep chatting with you. Breaking up doesn't mean I hate with passion, then i shld disconnect you. That's immature without a sensible reason.

But his there and good reason to which you can admit for him to block?

Well, probably his door is till open for you.

[Asker]

Hahaha don't think so

[Skateranon]

He might be trying to keep tabs on you, he also might just forgot. Maybe he might want a friendship in the future. Only he can tell you for sure

[KaranSharma55]

he left the door open.. lol

[Asker]

What does that mean? He also unfollowed so many model and crap people, and my friends on his insta? Why would he unfollow my friends and not me?

[KaranSharma55]

he want to realize you may be.. that you are still have a chance..