So, there's this guy. We were together for three years. I was deeply in love with him, but struggling with a lot of issues when we were together. So we broke up. It was mutual and mostly amicable. We wished each other the best, said we loved each other, and said goodbye.
It'll be a year since we broke up soon. Contrary to what every one said I'd feel by now, I still love him as if I saw him yesterday. I don't know how he feels, but I'm told he's single.
I'm not sad. I don't cry about it, and haven't for a while. I do miss him, but I date other guys. I go through the motions of moving on, but I still feel like he's the one I'm meant to be with.
Instagram recently suggested him to me from my contacts. I'm tempted to follow him, but I haven't really made nearly as many changes in my life as I would like. Is it a dumb idea to add him? If so, should I keep working on me and keep hoping we'll connect again one day, or should I keep working on me and try to forget him?
Most Helpful Guy
Look once you break up with somebody I strongly advice you cut all connections with him coz there is no good could ever come from watching him or being friends with him , you failed together as a couple so you would never succeed as anything else , just keep him out of ur life it will even make you forget him faster1
Most Helpful Girl
I was in a similar situation. I ended up following my ex on facebook a few months after we broke up. Sometimes, I hated that decision because I see him living his life without me. But nowadays, I am kind of grateful because I never realized how cheesy he came off on facebook. I still see him from time to time at common interest events and seeing him trying to flirt with girls and just do that whole front that I fell for, I feel like I know better now. A part of me will always cherish that time we had together. But the rest of me is thankful to just grow.0