#1 I only have one real ex. A few girlfriend other than that, one bad, one I'm still friends with. #2 I stopped approaching women when I turned 30 not one women has asked me out since so I gave up on them. #3 i certainly still have feeling for my ex wife I hope she's doing well I have no contact. #4 not enough exes to have an opinion I'm a guy , it's a lot of work risk and money just to get a date. We don't have options like women do #5 no#6 no#7 no contact, don't even know where we she lives. #8 I have no new partner and never will#9 no I wouldn't even think about it. #10 I'd never cheat#11 no opinion#12 no opinion#13 how many people do women date these days? Are men that disposable now?
#2 wow #3 would she reciprocate if you told her? #4 i know plenty of guys with plenty of options. It could just be certain guys lacking certain qualities. #13 i see everyone as disposable and easily replaceable unless they are my parent, grandparent, sibling, future husband or future child. Anyone else can get cut at any moment
#1 How can you or why can’t you befriend an ex? I can if no feelings were involved, if they were it's just trouble. #2 Are you currently dating, pursuing or fooling around with an ex? Nope. #3 How are you sure that feelings are not still lingering on their end? Because they're coldhearted bitches. #4 Do you often end on a good note with exes? Nope. #5 Have you ever befriended them with intentions to rekindle? Kinda. #6 Have you asked an ex (or accepted their offer) to be friends with benefits? I have but I regretted it but she declined anyway. #7 So you're totally okay hanging out with them and their new partner? Nope #8 Would you hang around an ex without your new partner? Nope #9 Do you usually ask exes to take you back or do they ask to be taken back? The one time I did it was mutual #10 Would you leave or cheat on a current partner to get back with an ex? Never #11 Do you think its inappropriate for exes to invite or be invited to eachothers weddings? If it ends well nah. #12 If your current/future partner matched everything you want in a person, but was not comfortable with you befriending an ex, who do you cut out of your life? My ex #13 #WhatsTheScenario You befriended an ex. But when you get into a new relationship, the ex confesses they still love you. You turn them down. Could you possibly still remain friends after? No
1. Because we split amicably before attempting them impossibility of long distance 2. No 3. could be but the distance, I'll probably go to Poland, find out then consider moving if things are good 4. Both times so far we've remained friends 5. No 6. No 7. The distance prevents that but they've so far remained single 8. I don't have one and probably never will either 9. Neither has happen yet 10. Maybe leave but not cheat 11. Depends on the duration of the relationship and how long ago it ended 12. Tough call I could learn Polish somewhere else but I can't see anyone one else keeping me off nail varnish 13. I could but could they?
1 - Never goes well. Almost always someone still has feelings and is pretty hurt when things end #2 - No. Tried to get in contact with her a few times, hope she’s still alive 🤷♂️ Wasn’t in a very good place last we talked #3 Hard to say, often is #4 Mostly yeah, I have no hard feelings against any girl I’ve dated #5 Honestly yeah #6 Yep #7 Nope #8 Extremely unlikely #9 Only happened once and it was me asking #10 Cheat no, and honestly there’s one girl I’d drop anything for under the right circumstances #11 Generally yeah #12 Ex #13 That’s why friends usually doesn’t work
#1 fully agree #2 well thats sweet you at least wanted to know if she was alive. I can't say the same. #10 there's 3 guys i can say that about but none are technically exes
1. You can, my ex-wife and I are still good friends and the in-laws. It’s a choice. 2. No, they are ex’s for a reason. 3. She is remarried. 4. Yes, even ex girlfriends I am still friends with. 5. Nope, ( see answer to 2). 6. Nope ( see above). 7. Absolutely I have even spent the night. 8. Yes, relationship are built on trust not trust issues. 9. Nope ( see answer to 2). 10. Nope ex’s are ex’s and that is final. 11. Nope not if you are still friends. 12 friends are friends and I don’t give up friends for anyone. Relationships are built on trust not trust issues. 13. On my part, yes. Their part is up to them.
so reading you answers to be with you you better be one who mates for life…. lol no second chance.
#1 yea but not always a smart one #4 wow #7 lmao that is so unusual #8 When it comes to exes, its not even about trust for me. Its about respect and being appropriate
Most of these don't apply to me, but I will answer two on what I think. If you go from friendship to relationship, hopefully the friendship won't end after the relationship does. So I would aim to remain friends. So of course I'd like them to come to my wedding, if we're friends. As for the friends with benefits situation I would actually like this. Chances are, the reason you broke up was not because of sex. The sex was still good. Neither of you are dating, and sex still feels good. Until you or your ex gets another SO, why not continue having sex. Naturally that means you're still friends, you just also have sex.
I absolutely want the friendship to go to hell with the relationship if we break up. Thats why i prefer not to date friends in the first place. I wouldn't want to be friends with benefits and the sex did cause a lot if breakups because they were ready when i was not and i got sick of being pressured.
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#1 I only have one real ex. A few girlfriend other than that, one bad, one I'm still friends with.
#2 I stopped approaching women when I turned 30 not one women has asked me out since so I gave up on them.
#3 i certainly still have feeling for my ex wife I hope she's doing well I have no contact.
#4 not enough exes to have an opinion I'm a guy , it's a lot of work risk and money just to get a date. We don't have options like women do #5 no#6 no#7 no contact, don't even know where we she lives. #8 I have no new partner and never will#9 no I wouldn't even think about it. #10 I'd never cheat#11 no opinion#12 no opinion#13 how many people do women date these days? Are men that disposable now?
#2 wow #3 would she reciprocate if you told her? #4 i know plenty of guys with plenty of options. It could just be certain guys lacking certain qualities. #13 i see everyone as disposable and easily replaceable unless they are my parent, grandparent, sibling, future husband or future child. Anyone else can get cut at any moment
#1 How can you or why can’t you befriend an ex? I can if no feelings were involved, if they were it's just trouble.
#2 Are you currently dating, pursuing or fooling around with an ex? Nope.
#3 How are you sure that feelings are not still lingering on their end? Because they're coldhearted bitches.
#4 Do you often end on a good note with exes? Nope.
#5 Have you ever befriended them with intentions to rekindle? Kinda.
#6 Have you asked an ex (or accepted their offer) to be friends with benefits? I have but I regretted it but she declined anyway.
#7 So you're totally okay hanging out with them and their new partner? Nope
#8 Would you hang around an ex without your new partner? Nope
#9 Do you usually ask exes to take you back or do they ask to be taken back? The one time I did it was mutual
#10 Would you leave or cheat on a current partner to get back with an ex? Never
#11 Do you think its inappropriate for exes to invite or be invited to eachothers weddings? If it ends well nah.
#12 If your current/future partner matched everything you want in a person, but was not comfortable with you befriending an ex, who do you cut out of your life? My ex
#13 #WhatsTheScenario You befriended an ex. But when you get into a new relationship, the ex confesses they still love you. You turn them down. Could you possibly still remain friends after? No
1. Because we split amicably before attempting them impossibility of long distance
2. No
3. could be but the distance, I'll probably go to Poland, find out then consider moving if things are good
4. Both times so far we've remained friends
5. No
6. No
7. The distance prevents that but they've so far remained single
8. I don't have one and probably never will either
9. Neither has happen yet
10. Maybe leave but not cheat
11. Depends on the duration of the relationship and how long ago it ended
12. Tough call I could learn Polish somewhere else but I can't see anyone one else keeping me off nail varnish
13. I could but could they?
#13 why would you want to?
Who knows honestly
1 - Never goes well. Almost always someone still has feelings and is pretty hurt when things end
#2 - No. Tried to get in contact with her a few times, hope she’s still alive 🤷♂️ Wasn’t in a very good place last we talked
#3 Hard to say, often is
#4 Mostly yeah, I have no hard feelings against any girl I’ve dated
#5 Honestly yeah
#6 Yep
#7 Nope
#8 Extremely unlikely
#9 Only happened once and it was me asking
#10 Cheat no, and honestly there’s one girl I’d drop anything for under the right circumstances
#11 Generally yeah
#12 Ex
#13 That’s why friends usually doesn’t work
#1 fully agree #2 well thats sweet you at least wanted to know if she was alive. I can't say the same. #10 there's 3 guys i can say that about but none are technically exes
1. You can, my ex-wife and I are still good friends and the in-laws. It’s a choice.
2. No, they are ex’s for a reason.
3. She is remarried.
4. Yes, even ex girlfriends I am still friends with.
5. Nope, ( see answer to 2).
6. Nope ( see above).
7. Absolutely I have even spent the night.
8. Yes, relationship are built on trust not trust issues.
9. Nope ( see answer to 2).
10. Nope ex’s are ex’s and that is final.
11. Nope not if you are still friends.
12 friends are friends and I don’t give up friends for anyone. Relationships are built on trust not trust issues.
13. On my part, yes. Their part is up to them.
so reading you answers to be with you you better be one who mates for life…. lol no second chance.
#1 yea but not always a smart one
#4 wow #7 lmao that is so unusual #8 When it comes to exes, its not even about trust for me. Its about respect and being appropriate
Most of these don't apply to me, but I will answer two on what I think. If you go from friendship to relationship, hopefully the friendship won't end after the relationship does. So I would aim to remain friends. So of course I'd like them to come to my wedding, if we're friends. As for the friends with benefits situation I would actually like this. Chances are, the reason you broke up was not because of sex. The sex was still good. Neither of you are dating, and sex still feels good. Until you or your ex gets another SO, why not continue having sex. Naturally that means you're still friends, you just also have sex.
I absolutely want the friendship to go to hell with the relationship if we break up. Thats why i prefer not to date friends in the first place. I wouldn't want to be friends with benefits and the sex did cause a lot if breakups because they were ready when i was not and i got sick of being pressured.
Interesting but that sounds right on my end to.
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