Im bestfriends with my ex I still love her, how can I keep doing this without hurting?

[Shyguy11gg]

She has told me she loves me but can't be with me

[Guy13]

Can’t you two just fwck like 🦆 and 🐇 ❓
Sounds like there would never be “dead fish or flounder sex”.

[Shyguy11gg]

Well we have never had sex cause I wanted to show her that I really love her for her not her body not for sex since she has been in those kind of rela before

[Guy13]

If she has been in those type of Relationships then you have to give her Some of what she’s used too.
If you are to perfect, and by default ‘Better’ than her, then she will never be able to be with you. And always be reminded of her brokenness an undeservingness around you.
Broken will not grow in perfect soil.
-Your life….

[Flower7]

Trying to stay “friends” with her will only continue to cause you pain. I don’t see anything positive coming from that situation. This friendship is toxic and it’s not a good idea to keep having that in your life.

[Shyguy11gg]

I know that but she has been through a lot in life and I have mostly been the only one that been pushing her to get better mentally and financially I want her to be out the dark place she is in and I know in my heart that will never be together but I can't get myself to separate my feelings for some reason

[Avicenna]

Well, why can't you two get back together? What caused you to break up?

[Shyguy11gg]

I really don't know 100% she said part was my brother cause he didn't like her, other part that I was just friends with this other girl that I wasn't even into juts being friendly, but then she told me she isn't ready for a relationship she need to work on herself

[Gwenhwyfar]

Why can’t she be with you?

[Shyguy11gg]

She told me she is not ready for a relationship, but she told me she does loves me but can't expect me to wait for her

[Gwenhwyfar]

That makes sense

[Iron_Man]

Keep working on her sweet talk her