We split late February, so it’s been over a month now. I definitely miss her a lot. We were having issues in our relationship and I tend to dismiss smaller things and want to get into the process of fixing and solutions. She was drowned by the problems and then seemed fine when she was distracted from them and didn’t need to face them. So the same problems would arise and she’d be upset when I brought them up to be taken care of. But after weeks of her not wanting to put in effort or at least verbally communicate with me her stance but instead saying she doesn’t know what she wants. I was left not knowing what to do aside separate because it was a vicious cycle of not knowing. I love her dearly and when I cut it off she didn’t mean for this to happen, and neither did I… just felt like I had no choice. I’m miss spending time with her. And just having someone to do day to day with. Now I see her post over social media very sad and trying to move along but hard. Just as I am, but I’m very curious if the relationship could’ve been solved. I hate seeing her sad, and I miss her sooo much!
Broke up with my girlfriend just over a month ago. I pulled the trigger, but she was the one initiating space. I’m getting mixed messages. What to do?
