So me and ex were together for around 2 and a half years. We ended things around a year and a half ago. We were both going through really rough times and so just went separate ways without really having a proper goodbye. We ended on an argument and then just never spoke again. After this, we both got in other relationships. I ended mine, as I knew I wasn’t in it for the right reasons etc. He is still in his relationship. Throughout this time, he would sometimes walk past my work and look in through the window and look really sad. I tried to talk to him, but he was a bit hot and cold. He took my number, but never called etc…. Now, my ex has started actually coming into where i work? I work in a bar and recently he’s been coming in. It started as like once a month and recently it’s been like twice in 2 weeks. The way he is when he comes in changes everytime, The first time, he was really nervous and was just laughing at everything I said. Then flirting, then friendly and wouldn’t really leave my side. He came in with friends, they were doing their thing and he was just with me. The most recent he was just a bit quiet and wouldn’t really look at me but when I did speak to him, he was friendly and receptive.
He’s still in a relationship with this girl (she doesn’t know about me) Am I right to find this all a bit weird? I love him very much, and do believe that before, it wasn’t the right time for us. It’s still not the right time for us, as he has a girlfriend. He’s a genuinely, a really lovely guy but to me this is confusing!
He’s still in a relationship with this girl (she doesn’t know about me) Am I right to find this all a bit weird? I love him very much, and do believe that before, it wasn’t the right time for us. It’s still not the right time for us, as he has a girlfriend. He’s a genuinely, a really lovely guy but to me this is confusing!
