So my ex situationship has come back to my job and now he’s flirting with my co worker in front of me what do I do?

[Winstah26]

It’s killing me on the inside please what should I do?

[ohsheeT]

What made him leave in the first place and then come back. Did he leavev because you guys broke up or something elseleave

I know it really sucks seeing this. But I can tell you the out come. If you just let it go accept it. Acknowledge it, I will guarantee you. They will get together either. One of them will get fired or he will walk away again. Or they both will have to leave. And then just by putting yourself through that, knowing that you're gonna be okay. It's gonna make you ten times stronger than you are right now


If you just let it go. Everything will happen just like the way. I said if you the same thing's gonna happen is she's gonna take a longer time. Every thing happens g or a reason and everything that happens is a learning experience.
You have to understand that you're not gonna get back together with the guy and you shouldn't even want to be honest with you. How many times does he have to prove himself to you and who he truly is...

And if you have the attitude we're not together. I'm not your boss. I can't tell you what to do what not to do I mean you're kind of a piece of shit for doing it in front of my face. Just proves my point on who you truly are. That's when you acknowledge it and you accept it and live your life, knowing. Is just a matter of time before one of those 2 get fired are both of them. And if you pull this off with a beautiful heart you might even get a raise at a raise up in pay. And here's the other thing. All the other workers there. The new u s had been dating and then broke up whatever

When they see him with this other woman right in front of your fthey're gonna think he's a piece of s*** do because it's rude and what are the bosses won't end up finding out what he's doing? And he won't know that he's a piece of s*** too. So it's all gonna play in your favor just because of who he is or who he thinks he is. And how we treat people

[Winstah26]

Love this thank you ❤️

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

You just ignore him, and you go on with your life.

Maybe you could find a new office-situationship yourself.

Was this a situationship-situationship? Or were you hoping to turn it into a real relationship?

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Thanks for the MHO.

Any new developments?

[Winstah26]

It’s all a bit fucked up. He was married and I had a partner and was going through some tough times. My partner was away for work for a month. That’s when our situation started. I pretty much started things I knew he found me attractive and I kinda had a feeling he was down. So I just hit him up. It started with chats after work - then kissing - secret glances at work trying to play it cool. We slept together once and it was the best sex of my life. After we slept together I kinda freaked out. We just said sex only at the start of this cause we had our lives. Naive me I have never experienced a relationship like this before but it was exciting and new and I was getting sucked in hard. After we slept together I just felt so fucked up like it was the best I ever had and I also felt extremely guilty. He wanted to meet the next day but I couldn’t my concious was killing me I needed space. I soon started to realise that he indeed just wanted sex when ever we met up well it was always physical. And to keep doing this I needed something more? Then realised he was only seeing me for that. I broke things off I didn’t really say why I just said I can’t do this anymore don’t text or call me yea? We never had any deep conversations or actual accountability chats. He tried to message a few times but I left it. It’s been a year since all that happened. I still think about him even tho I know he wasn’t an angel in this. But I guess it was the excitement and newness

[Winstah26]

He’s tried a couple times to come back for “work”

We moved warehouses and he said to let him know when we move - him and his team were our main drivers who would pick up our post so would see them every day. Then we broke things off a few weeks later a new team showed up at work, I was annoyed cause he didn’t let me know that their manager decided to leave us. So I thought what do I owe him? I do not want to tell him we moved cause I do not want to see him again risk him flirting with my co worker in front of me? Yea nope hell no. Like if he had to be a driver at my work fine I would have let it go and just you know died in my soul but if I could not have him as a driver again then yea I would rather him not be there. It honestly hurt me so bad. I guess it wasn’t like crazy flirting but yea I thought it was inappropriate especially in front of me the girl you were fucking.

My manager rang post said our pickups weren’t clearing daily. My ex b must of herd cause he started coming to the new place but the gat was locked he said he tried for a couple days then he rang me and asked I told him my usually drivers know the go now he just kept saying yes call me for last pickup anytime. And that was the last I spoke to him

It’s been a year since we fucked and yea I still think about him a lot. Not that I actually want to be with him but I think it was just the feeling of excitement I hadn’t felt that in so long and also we never really got closure. I’ve just deleted his number and unfriended him on socials. I guess I was hoping at some point I was gonna get closure but I’m past that now. Now that I know he’s not gonna come into my job unexpectedly I feel like I can finally start healing

[TiffanySpooky]

I was just talking to the coworker and perhaps saying me, and that man were seeing each other. It kind of makes me uncomfortable that he’s coming up here and flirting? I’m not really sure I feel like honestly is the best policy in this case because it’s not like you can go back to him and talk to him because clearly he’s moved on, but they can respect your boundaries and not be flirting Making googly eyes in front of you

[Winstah26]

You would think right? So sometimes he would come in he would walk to me but then wave out to her? Like um do you know her or do you wanna know her? It was so fucked

[EmmaMary]

28 years of age and still suffering/struggling with your "situationship". smh

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[RHK36]

Uh... ya move on and find someone new. Why stay hung up on someone that is an ex of not even a real relationship. Stop being thirsty and move on to find someone new worth your time

[OneViewpoint]

He's your ex. Why's it killing you. Let him focus on her. You go focus on someone who isn't gonna become your ex.

[MasterKS]

It's high time to get another dick in front of him so he can feel it.

[slatyb]

You behave professionally and ignore it.

[DannyUk2017]

IGNORANCE is a BLISS!

[InknKink]

Nothing you can do.

[Anonymous]

Are you really 28 years old?