Was it a bad idea to start messing around with my co worker?

[Anonymous]

I started dealing with this guy at work. We work in different departments. We talk, interact, flirt etc but to me it just seems like he likes the attention I give him. It seems as if I make his work day go by faster but he doesn’t seem to genuinely like me. Anytime we talk at work, I have to text him and ask him to come to the break room so that we can talk. I’ll sit side my side with him and he’ll be into his phone, with headphones on, giving me dry responses. His body language just seems as though he’s just not into it. I’ve noticed him flirting with other women. I even seen him run his hand through one female co workers hair. Most of the time, he’ll see me and I’ll see him but If I don’t make the first move, he won’t even speak to me. I have went as far as staying over my break time, my supervisor repeatedly calling me but I stayed in the the break room, laid under him and he still doesn’t seem to genuinely care.

[Anonymous]

Girl, do yourself a favor and end it. So many red flags and won’t end well. Firstly, that you don’t shit where you eat. Never date a co worker. If it’s that serious, one of you needs to leave or go to a different department to where you can’t see eachother. Absolutely horrible idea.

Second, he’s shown you time and time again he isn’t interested. He’s just the office womanizer and you’re wearing rose colored glasses. He wants every attractive woman in there. If you continue with him despite all of the things you’ve seen him do with other women, congratulations, you are now in “pick me” territory.

THIRD, despite all of those red flags, you are giving this man all of your power. Men like to chase. You are chasing him right now. If you really wanted to get his attention, ignore him from now on. While I don’t think you should be doing anything with him, chasing him is not only embarrassing but futile.

[Anonymous]

Yes a bad idea indeed

[Opinion Owner]

It's alright just move on and ignore them