Pain of love and breakup?

[Anonymous]

Oh man I feel actually sh*t.. It has been two weeks but every day it feels worse.. Waking up checking on her social media and seeing all the male guys she's been following.. Well, even without all those I still feel painful.. I feel like I will not love someone else.. Any tips? :(

[NZGirl07]

I remember feeling like this, but it is temporary. It may last for a while, but time heals all wounds. You broke up for a reason, and she is not the right person for you. This is hard to accept I know, but it is likely best if you stop viewing her page as this will make it harder to move on. It is good to cry and let yourself feel emotions. But keep living your life and eventually you will find someone even better. At one point I couldn't imagine being without my ex, but now I found someone a million times better and more suited to me, who cares more and makes me happy. If she wanted you, she wouldn't have broke up with you. You can do better.

[Asker]

Well we didn't break up because of bad reasons actually. We are still friends and loving each other, but we just thought we have different goals and ambitions in life. So technically we did something which we did not want. But it is what it is.. I am just scared and questioning whether I can love someone else as much. She was the first for many things..

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I mean, it's only been two weeks.

But torturing yourself by looking at how many dudes she follows isn't helping you.

Get off social media, go focus on yourself. You won't heal if you keep ripping open the wounds yourself.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are torturing yourself. You don't move forward by constantly looking in your rearview mirror.

[boggboss]

Stop checking up on her all u do is cause more pain actually make steps to move on

[WhitneySnow]

Have some ice cream and talk it out with your friends. Time will help you feel better.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, keep busy and don't spend too much time alone.