Guys, you have to choose , divorcing your sexual cheater and abusive spouse to maintain mental health? Or not divorcing for the sake of your child's?

[Spongeboblol]

I mean divorcing your abusive (financially, emotionally, physically, sexually ) spouse to make your health stable so you will be able to focus on taking care of your kids or vice versa? For maintaining your kids mental health but you are dying mentally and even get hurt physically due to depression. for finance, do you split the bill 50/50 ? And do you combine your bank account together but 30% of your income is only yours?

[HawkPerception]

Divorce easily. I can make things work with my child. But I would not want to be stuck with a partner that makes me miserable for another second.

[Spongeboblol]

For example, your spouse has cheated mainly sexually , multiple times, will you tell the truth about your spouse's mistake to your child in order your child won't blame you and hate you and get depression? Or how is it to solve this out?

[HawkPerception]

I will always be honest with my child. And what they do with that info is up to them, but I refuse to hide things away from my kid. There is always a good way to tell a kid and let them know that you will always be there for them whenever they say the word.

[slatyb]

Divorce will be better for the child too.

[SnakeBoop]

no abuse or cheater is worth staying in a relationship with. ever.

[Spongeboblol]

For example, your spouse has cheated mainly sexually , multiple times, will you tell the truth about your spouse's mistake to your child in order your child won't blame you and hate you and get depression? Or how is it to solve this out? 😇

[SnakeBoop]

like I already said. no cheater or abuser is worth staying with. jesus christ can you not read?

[Ringstretch]

I would stay for the child

[Spongeboblol]

What if she abuses and uses you for 10 years? For example, she becomes a gold digger and always makes frauds without any proofs, or only gives you once a week sex which is not enough lets say

[Ringstretch]

I won't suffer for the child's sake