Would you still go through with the divorce even if the other person isn't financially stable?

[Anonymous]

So my brother is divorcing his wife after about 13 years, but it basically created a situation where the wife didn't have her money together to live on her own and care for the kids. She had no problem at all letting the world know that she hated him and that he wasn’t a good husband. Her family is very filled with drama and everyone grew tired of it. When she knew divorce was coming, she started acting nice and trying to be a good wife. She stated that the main reason she hasn't filed is that she isn't financially stable or has enough savings to live alone. She relied heavily on his salary while still working. He is in the military and also does other things. The only thing he gets is a woman who despises him and swears she'll never marry again. She was acting single and saying nasty things about him, and now she is acting married again. This happened after reality sat in that this is about to be completely over. She trying to stay in the marriage because of his stability

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Finances aside, you can’t disrespect and dishonor your spouse by running your mouth, and expect everything to go well for you.

[Gwendoline]

She took him for granted

[Orion84]

Sounds like a "sucks to be her" situation.

He has every right to divorce her, and if she can't take care of herself, then maybe she should have thought about that before she acted that way.

[Asker]

Exactly and then she be saying she be joking. Smh nawl that’s how you feel

[Orion84]

She's just trying to take it back, 'cause her big mouth got her in trouble.

She's finally learning that the "Find Out" part isn't nearly as much fun as the "Fuck Around" part.

[Asker]

lol yep that part

[slatyb]

Of course I would. That's why there is child support and alimony. If she has been supporting him at home for 13 years, of course she doesn't have an independent income and will need support for some time.

[Asker]

She has been supporting him?

[slatyb]

Of course I don't know, but I assume she has been providing child care, home maintenance, and other services.

[Asker]

Lol no that’s him totally

[slatyb]

Then he should be able to get custody of the children and won't pay support.

[Anonymous]

If she's really changed her tune and is trying to be a good wife, he should give her another chance, for the kids' sake if nothing else. She knows now that he will drop the divorce bomb if she decides to be a bitch again, so she's motivated.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I wouldn't hesitate.

[Asker]

Definitely

[Adel50]

I would proceed with the divorce.

[Asker]

Amen