Would you stay if your partner suddenly went bankrupt?

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V_Injector · Accepted Answer

First of all... she's a financial retard. I would want to get that out of the way first. I want that acknowledged and for all to see that I didn't do it, she did. Her, and only her all by herself did something financially retarded.

If she can accept that, then it's time for the man to come and fix things just like the man always does because she's RETARDED. That fucking retard just goes around breaking things and then I have to fix it for her. If I fuck up she busts my balls about it but I just don't act as retarded. Okay, I bought a $699 walkie talkie scanner thing when I was growing weed and was paranoid about the cops. You though bitch... sent more than that amount of money over to some Indian Pajeet Poo fest guy just because he told you to on the phone. Oh yeah, I'm sure he's the real IRS Tax man on the phone sounding like he wants to sell you curry. I believe you bitch.

I'm not joking when I call her a fucking retard. But I have to take shit about the stupid fucking scanner that is like peanut money to us now? She just bought like this six set of walkie talkies... can I get a fucking reprieve from buying a scanner to listen to the cops talk about doughnuts all night? It was like over 10 years ago... ffs. Can I? Maybe? Just maybe?

The guy on the phone probably shit himself after finding out how retarded she is.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on  why  they went bankrupt. Also matters about what kind of education, drive and resilience they have to bounce back.  I am recovering compulsive gambler. I was (and still am) single when I hit my rock bottom 3 years ago. If I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be surprised if my hypothetical girlfriend/wife would left me in my worse moments.  But did I give up after hitting rock bottom? No. I got clean through Gamblers anonymous (clean for almost 3 years). Worked my ass of at my primary job and worked hard on nights and weekends on a side hustle.  I am now looking at selling my side hustle for a big number which will completely get me out of debt plus more in the next few months. I owned up to what I did and bounced back with hard work.  Truth be told I think most women would of left me in my darkest moments though. Reason being I’ve had women leave for lesser reasons in my life.  But still I bounced back because I wanted to prove something to myself. And I did it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, it happened to my friend and she did not stay because her husband went bankrupt because he had a major gambling problem, which she soon found out in the worst way, because he used BOTH of their children's college funds to gamble away not only all their future money, but put money against their house and everything else. If there was a legit reason for his bankruptcy and he was trying to work through it, I personally would see no reason to break up with someone--I'd consider it a hard time, we'd both need to work through as it could happen to anyone, but if you are the true cause in such a horrible situation as my friends ex, or they were doing illegal activities, I'm out.

osmanthus · Accepted Answer

It might be possible to recover from bankruptcy but may require financial knowledge assistance and a lot of communication with the creditors, banks, etc. It may become a part of their credit report for a long time and impede lending and other considerations but in no way does bankruptcy mean the end of the world in the same vein as AIDS in the past nearly guaranteed an early death sentence. I might suggest you ask around with the government services sector to see about getting public service help with this situation rather than borrowing monies as this would worsen an already tanking financial profile.

Summeroflove · Answer

What kind of relationship (marriage, girlfriend/boyfriend, engaged, etc) as well as why did she go bankrupt.

At the end of the day it’s not good to date for money but if someone makes horrible financial decisions or worse yet uses you for money. Then it may be better to exit the relationship.

If she’s owns say a business and it happens despite her best efforts. That’s another story.

Finchie40 · Answer

If you are a loving partner you would have their back the same way you expect them to have yours’ Love comes from the heart , not what’s inside their wallet. Money comes and goes , true love lasts forever

Account · Answer

I would, because I am stupid. I find that most people aren't stupid like me. Both men and women.

razelove · Answer

In my relationship, which is a marriage, no. To go bankrupt in the spot we are now she'd have to develop a drug or gambling addiction, or give it to someone else. Any of those would be unacceptable and I'd seriously consider homicide because of how damaging that would be to the kids as well.

Kelly6 · Answer

@itsannalee My husband in past lost his job and couldn't find any new job that we were close to being homeless, but I didn't leave him instead I started working as sex worker to save our family.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yea, we'd dig out of it. i'd be bankrupt too. I've seen couples like that.. and with lots of kids. Very painful and hard times when family is not good, breadwinner is down.

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest, I probably wouldn't. I don't like to think I'm a selfish person, but I do feel like I need to look out for my own interests. I think anyone being honest would agree.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course. I couldn't care less how much money he has. When I started dating him, he didn't even have a job.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yeah but I would wonder why. But I would have to be older in this scenario because right now my partner is only 18 like me.

Berethor · Answer

Those questions should be for girls only, as most men don't care about partner's money.

Jersey2 · Answer

Yes. That is part of the deal, at least in marriage. For a girlfriend, I would stay as well. If you aren’t in it for the money I see no reason to leave.

The_Confusion · Answer

i guess that would mean we can't afford moving to a new home.

jojouzumaki · Answer

Absolutely YES! What matters most is we are together.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Partner or spouse? WORLD of difference! Partner I may, spouse I likely wouldn't.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes i make good money more than enough to take care of a family but i would never let her handle the money

Still-alive · Answer

yes... unless they gave up and think they can just mooch off me forever.

SunnyRS · Answer

I would, cause if she is in a tough spot it is my duty to protect and support her

Agape93 · Answer

Depends. But how tf you manage that

avery58 · Answer

Yeah, I would.

exitseven · Answer

The deal was for richer and for poorer

jahaims · Answer

Depends on why they went bankrup

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes of course

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

Bankrupt or broke... big difference

Twalli · Answer

Depends on how much I can help.

nawtee_me · Answer

Depending on the reason why….

NathanDavis · Answer

yeah

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I MEAN... SHIT HAPPENS

Effie1997 · Answer

Tell them bye.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes.

Void-Walker · Answer

not good

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

Until the end

dinojames22 · Answer

Maybe

eagle1951 · Answer

yess

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