Why would my ex boyfriend start texting me/meeting me for a year and then get married without telling me?

[Lunatuna119]

[melnc]

Why did you break up?

[Lunatuna119]

I found out he was having an affair so I left.

[melnc]

He may miss what you had together but he doesn't regret what he did.

[Lunatuna119]

I wish he would have left me alone. I had no clue that he was engaged the whole time. I guess the plan was to drop me once married. I saw him a week prior. It feels like I’m reliving the breakup all over again

[melnc]

You're valuable and worthy that's the real plan. He's an idiot, and he didn't know your value until it was too late. It’s okay if you feel lost and disorientated. You’re a human being with emotions after all. He chose to live his life the way he wanted, so no matter how hard he tried, don't let him ruin what you aspire to. You must show incredibly high self-esteem by setting new rules and standards.

[Lunatuna119]

Thank you so much!! It has been hard to see the light.

[melnc]

You'll see the light, everything is temporary and things will get better than they were before. just be patient.

[Anonymous]

Because he was trying set his whistle on the side.

[clemdenim]

You were the side piece

[Lunatuna119]

Main piece to side piece. Why bother?