Why guy randomly text me and said he moved alone (he was (i dont know is he still) married)?

[Anonymous]

[Olivier-628]

regret? loneliness? ask him. But what do you want to do with it? Do you like him, just want to help him? that's up to you.

[Asker]

why its up to me if he is not interested?

[Olivier-628]

are you sure about that? No, are you really sure that that's still the case.

[Asker]

what do yuo mean?

[Asker]

I asked him is everything ok. He just put thumps up to me.

[Olivier-628]

I think he's lost enough pride to respond to you the truth. And an emoji seems like he doesn't want to talk about it and just send an emoji. If you'd ask anyone that's actually been doing well you'll get a different response

A good time respond with, "no really, do you need anything?"

Have a call. Chat up with him somewhere. Not in text to get the finer details. Proceed how you want to.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Asker]

So im losing him because i answered that way?

[Asker]

But why does he even bother to tell me? We doesn't even spoke at all.

[Asker]

Does he think im some kind of sidechick to him?

[Olivier-628]

I don't think so, maybe he needs some time but it confirms it's not going so well.

And could be that you are the sidechick but maybe he's just want to connect to old friends.

[Asker]

What if he just blames himself? What should i say to him?

[Olivier-628]

He's gonna blame himself, he's a guy. and probably something comforting like he'll be alright, or ask if he's up to go do something.

[Asker]

He said to me he feels lonely after work and weekends… why is he telling me that?

[Kaylawinters11]

He could be interested in you. Or needs someone to talk to

[Anonymous]

Why don't you ask him? 🤦‍♀️