Why did he avoid me?

[Anonymous]

I saw my ex today and their were double doors he decided to walk on my side instead of the other. Him and I made eye contact. Then when he walked by me he was so close to the side of the door he was avoiding me like I had the plague or something yet he made eye contact with me.

[ShakTreblat]

Well without context as to why you guys are ex’s it’s hard to say. Did you break up amicably?


Based on how you described the encounter, it sounds like you two didn’t really talk much after the split, so it’s understandable why he’d avoid you if he was feeling hurt or disliked you

[Asker]

We got into an argument. He tried to get with me again at the end of last year, but I wasn’t having it. So he has a new girl now and he’s always staring at me. We also run into each other as well. I wanna get back together honestly

[ShakTreblat]

Aaaah! Maybe he’s just feeling guilty or awkward after the argument! I would recommend being careful how you approach the situation going forward though. If he’s in another relationship you could end up in a sticky love triangle kinda situation

[Asker]

Every time I see him we always make eye contact. But then he avoids me like I have a disease. I’m confused

[TommyMountainFigure]

Perhaps he didn't know the protocols of coming face to face with an ex.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Why don't he avoid you?
After all you're his old used toy.

[Asker]

You’re probably single

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yes I don't carry garbage...✌️

[Wise4myage]

Uh, because he's an ex and feels awkward around you.

[baserunner611]

He hurting