Do you think its bad idea to not want your kids to move out with you ex spouse?

[Anonymous]

Assuming you have a kid and divorced

[sunflower00]

It’s his kids too. Your children will probably want to see you both, and you should let them, or they will resent you in the future. It’s quite selfish to keep them from their father unless he did something really wrong (like he’s a pedo or a serious criminal or something)

[UniquelyBasic]

Its normal to want to have your kids living with you but they are his kids too. How old are the kids?

[Asker]

16 years old.

[UniquelyBasic]

You shouldn't make the kid choose between their parents or pick sides. This seems like something you should talk about with your ex spouse and your kids to come up with a compromise.

[TenkRealist]

It its their kid as much as yours. That's all.