If a relationship got too difficult for me, I’d address the problems with my partner and see if we could improve our relationship.
If our relationship continued to be difficult or stressful, I’d break up and probably be friends with him if he’s nice.
You could try to improve yourself at this time before her return so both of you could work toward a better relationship when she returns.
You could also get to know new girls in case your girlfriend never returns, which could happen☺️ Maybe there will be someone that fits you better.
All you can do is respect her wishes. It's up to you if you get back with her or not
Personally, i couldn't be with someone who wanted or needed a break from our relationship. That would cause too much intability and cause emotional insecurity. If we got back together, I would always wonder when or if he was going to walk away again. He either wants me or he doesn't. Two people need to work at making the relationship succeed and be a happy one. Taking a break doesn't resolve anything
I'd end the relationship outright.
I wouldn't want to be friends with her afterwards. She wants the benefit of both decisions.
I'd argue if she needs a break now, she'll need another one in the future. If your age is accurate on your profile and she's around your age? Life is only going to get more complicated.
So if she needs a break now? She'll need a break-up 10yrs from now.
It doesn't sound like you two are a match.
She wants peace, let her go. No relationship and no friendship.
Be safe and good luck.
I wouldn't agree to that "Break" concept.
Sometimes that's a loophole some people use to be with others while they keep you on the line and accountable to them. Then they can return to you after sleeping with other people.
If anything, you should just tell her you want to stay together or break up completely for now. Maybe in the future will be a better time to be together.
That way you have no ties to her, there's no "Break" to work on yourself for her. You can date others like she will most likely be doing.
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I don't know about girls, but I always think it's sus when a guy wants "a break". It's like they're over you but they don't want to let you go. If you really love each other you shouldn't need "a break". Maybe a few hours to cool your mind but not a whole ass break.
You could do nothing about it. If it wasn't solely your fault and If she wants this to happen you have to accept it. At this point if you request or do anything else there are a lot of chances you might lower your value.
And if she is loyal to you and has true feeling she'll return in sometime.
Only simps agree to breaks. What a break is her dating, sleeping with and fooling around with other men until she's had her fill and then going back to some form of security and commitment from you. When ever a woman asks for a break, you give her a permanent one.
Move on and look for someone else, since it clearly isn't working with her.
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